I have been trying to work on my inner game and fixing myself before I even think about trying to meet women.So I begin talking to my friends family and ex's to find out what I needed to work on. It turns out I heard the same things over and over again. I want to ask you guys how can I work on theses things any articles, tips, techniques.


The first thing I heard that came out of everyone's mouth was I too secretive or sneaky. When I ask how they said I never really open up about whats going on in my life or who I'm dating or hanging out with. My family and Friends said they never know who I was dating or hanging out with. I admit I do keep this information quiet because I think it's no one business who I am dating or who spent the night last night. I never ask them. I am asking how to be more open without giving to much information ? Also I live with to many secrets no one knows what i'm doing or what I'm up too

The next thing I heard was i'm too emotional. I get mad to easily and have outburst or I walk away when things get too much. I do agree because I do see this in myself and I want to work on it but don't how. I am not asking how to stop being emotional but how to control them ?

All female?

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Yeah why ?

1, you can never rely on a woman to tell you how to get with a woman as a man because they have zero experience with such matters.
2, 'secretive and sneaky' can equal 'mysterious' which is something many women lap up 24/7.

Own your shit. You're the man. Act like it. Be it. You can do this.

Don't ask the prey for tips on hunting. Ask the hunter.

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I didn't ask for tips on how to get girls just on what I need to work on. And I'm working on becoming more Masculine but I honest don't know where to begin. I honestly think all the girls I'm trying to pull just like me for attention.

Have you ever tried to make a move, or get sexual with any of them?

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You need a mind shift you don't want to become too emotional or reactive. You need to realize that nothing is ever a big deal and you should try to take on a more comedic approach to life. You shouldn't worry too much about inner game to begin with. Start approaching a ton and look at ever set as a reference point and be emotional detached from it but still being present with the girl. Listen to what she is saying. Speak with a deep tonality. Qualify her. Escalate. Close.

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Agree with everything I see here. Women are experts at BEING women, men are experts at SEDUCING women (or they were in the 50's, before films like Superbad taught us to be complete pussies because it'd just work in the end lol)

Ask a man who knows wtf he's doing, and is in the exact situation that you want to be in. Never rely on a woman. Seriously, not even female coaches. Kezia Noble is a moron and the blonde one is even worse.

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One I ended up cuddling with her and that's it.. Another girl she had text me "I'm tired" and I said my bed has room and she reply with "hahaha no" and the last one I'm not sure there is attract there. She asks to hang out all the time but flakes every time. I don't say nothing or anything to her about it and but she will text me some lame excuse then she will ask to hang out again and do the same. So when ever she ask now I just say okay and leave it at that. How do I become emotional detach from a situation ? The only way to would happen if I'm not attracted to the girl to begin with

Sounds like you just need to combat this by gaming girls that like you.

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Abundance mentality. If you're spinning a plate and you drop it, you've dropped everything. How embarrassing?

If you're spinning 10 and you drop 2, you're still spinning 8... still pretty impressive, something to be proud of.

Know how to make something seem more valuable? Make it scarce. There's a planet made out of diamond which would render all diamonds on Earth completely worthless, but we can't get there, so diamonds are scarce... and look how valuable they are but if we had an abundance, we'd happily walk past a diamond the size of a basketball in the street.

I like analogies and metaphors and shit, I do.

Too long; didn't read: Get more girls. Everyone will tell you the same. It's how you stop individual girls mattering so much. Also (told you I like analogies and metaphors, well I like similies, too.) girls are like money. The more you have, the more you attract.

Tinder spam, approach anxiety drill (newbie mission or whatever), set as many dates as possible.

Eddie Fews said something once about how you wouldn't get a second chance at a job interview with Google if you didn't show up, and a guy should value himself as if he's Google. I can't remember how he worded it, but it's actually a really good point.

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Also, you want to become more masculine.. so you ask women what you should work on? Lol!

Masculinity is about smashing targets, earning bragging rights (and not bragging), accomplishments.

Join a gym, give yourself a makeover, keep working on your seduction skills, find a new passion.

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It's because your being a cuddle bitch....

You don't escalate to sex.

It's funny, a girl can cuddle all night without getting the least bit horny.

It's cozy. The leap to get from cuddle to pound town is YOUR job.

Girls, love to be touched, and cuddle, you need to go from cuddling, to massage to kissing, to more exploring, to banging.

Escalate quickly.

Escalate often.

Your not getting to sex because you are stuck in a mind loop of "possible" rejection.

Because of all the (SHIT) your, Mom, Sister, girl who is a friend, put in your head of what a girl wants.

You reach that point and think, what if's.

-What if she thinks I'm a perv?
-What if her friends knew?
-What if my dick won't work?
-What if she sees how little it is?

What if's are cowardly Bro.

Cowardly and unfounded.

You know what girls REALLY want? What those women didn't tell you?

Dick, they want dick just as much as you want that pussy.

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^ take that word for word.

Even if those "what if's" actually amount to something (they eventually will) it doesn't even matter. Lol I've been in bed with 3 different girls and not been able to get hard. With the first one, I said I'm sorry and explained how it was me and even made up excuses for it... to which she said I was selfish. The second and third time I had sorted my shit out a bit more, so I just acted like it never even happened and said "put it in your mouth" so they did, and it shot right back up both times.

Ironically, I think it was Heywood that had my next point in his signature (might still be there, can't see): She'll only be bothered by it if you are. Meaning if you act like it's some horrible problem and you're falling apart, well women are followers. She'll go along with whatever frame you create. If you act like it's nothing and you don't lose your shit, she'll be fine too.

Lets say you make a move and a girl rejects you... why is that a bad thing? Give me a solid reason. Ok so blue balls... so what lol. The chances are it's just LMR and if you know what you're doing you'll still smash her anyway.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.