Is watching Porn good or detrimental for Inner Game?



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 14, 2015 12:45 am 
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Is watching Porn good or bad. If you are an insecure man porn will make it worse. If you are a cocky douche-bag, well then you become a cocky douche-bag. If you are in control and a strong minded person, well then no worries. Any feedback brothers?? I have two friends that watch waay too much porn and instead approaching women, crashing n burning and learning the fine arts of PUA's. They rather stay home and masturbate....and it weakens their confidence towards women, HB, 10's, pretty girls, etc.


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 14, 2015 12:47 am 
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It's a cliche, but everything in moderation.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 14, 2015 3:27 am 
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I actually believe that porn/masturbation is a bad thing. Before I got my shit together, I went roughly 2-3 years without sex at one point (the odd blowjob here and there) ...I had girls wanting me, and I flaked out of laziness/nervousness.

These days, I still watch porn on a daily basis but I also get laid. I'm exclusive with a girl at the moment, but I have plenty of other girls wanting me, some directly say it and others just lightly put themselves in my orbit.

As for inner game, sometimes I fake it. I come across narcissistic because I'm overcompensating, but at other times I genuinely do feel like I'm the shit. My time watching porn doesn't shorten, but other things in my life change. For example I have an exam coming up next month, if I failed that exam then it'd sway my inner game more than it should.

Inner game is kind of a minor sticking point for me, so I commented to get notifications ;)

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 14, 2015 10:09 am 
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It's straight up detrimental.

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Is watching Porn good or bad. If you are an insecure man porn will make it worse. If you are a cocky douche-bag, well then you become a cocky douche-bag. If you are in control and a strong minded person, well then no worries.
Lets address your logic here..

Cocky douche bag + porn = More of a cocky douche bag

Insecurity + Porn = More insecurity.

So..

Strong minded confident saint + Porn = More confidence, a stronger mind, and more angelic?

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If you want porn, I say go out and make your own. We do enough watching other people live their lives with television and youtube; we need to watch people have sex as well? Be the content creator, not the content consumer.

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Cool analogy Eddie Fews.


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 14, 2015 11:34 pm 
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Porn is completely irrelevant. Go talk to women and stop worrying about irrelevant stuff when it comes to pickup.

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 15, 2015 12:20 pm 
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Yup, just like gay-ass soft music. Its pretty much irrelevant when it comes to game.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 16, 2015 9:26 am 
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It's not irrelevant.

When you sit in your damn chain and selfie yourself, instead of going out and trying to meet some real human beings you're having sex with a computer screen.

And all your motivation goes in some wet wipe.

So no, it's not irrelevant.

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When you sit in your damn chain and selfie yourself, instead of going out and trying to meet some real human beings you're having sex with a computer screen.
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When you sit in your damn chain and selfie yourself, instead of going out and trying to meet some real human beings you're having sex with a computer screen.
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Not cool to call out J Daniels like that...
DICK. Computer screen > bearded guy from a night out.

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I don't know much about guys struggle with porn so can't speak to that. I know personally it's useful to me sometimes because I'd rather handle myself so I'm not horny to get some work done. Sure I could call one of many chick's over and fuck but sometimes I don't want to go through all that like if I'm trying to study and just want to make it quick and selfish.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 07, 2015 12:58 am 
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If you're watching porn and going out, your okay, your a grown man do whatever you want.

If you're watching porn and not doing shit else. Well Well. Self explanatory....

The false prophecy in the mind of the choad : Man I rather stay home and jerkoff to a hot naked girl... besides... my chances of fucking a real hottie are slim.


The truth : You can fuck a real hottie easily if you started acting like a man. But when choad goes out girls see nothing but a confused bitch that doesn't know how to act like a man.

But that can change.

Keep your head up

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Why don't you try it and find out for yourself? It's not going to kill you and it's not going to cost you anything. What are you waiting for?


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