Does this sound like needy or desperate behavior? When you call or text women who havent replied back in a timely manner. Would you text or leave this voice message? "Hello name of person. This is Joe so n so. Im texting or Im leaving you this message to know if you are ok or doing fine? I haven't heard from you lately and I got a little bit worried/concerned about you. I hope everything is fine and that you are doing o.k? Sincerely regards Joe so n so." .....Does that sound really pathetic ? Even though you are doing it with good intentions? And yes you are worried n concerned for her well being?

Yes that does sound pathetic. Voice messages should not be left because it shows too much investment from you. Instead, you should text her so she can quickly read it and respond back to it. There's a reason she hasn't responded back to you in a timely manner. Either she is busy or you haven't elicited enough of an emotional response from her. I'm also unsure what you mean by "timely manner". Generally you don't want to double text because, again, it shows too much investment. You want her to invest more than you are. If she doesn't respond back to you, then just focus on other girls. There are plenty of them. If want to reach to her again but she hasn't responded back, then you can send a ping text in 2 weeks to reignite the interaction.

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Needy. Please do not do this.

The only thing you're worried and concerned about is your dink's chances of ever going deep inside of her sugar walls.

No it's not pathetic. It's supremely pathetic. What are you? her grandmother?

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Do it.

I understand what Charles and rc are saying but I'm beginning to think that the source of all these basic threads on here is due to the constant hand holding myself and others do with giving advice. Do something and fail. Be pathetic. At least then you're figuring out the shit for yourself.

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haha love that line. true though, you learn better from mistakes.

but toro, definately DO NOT send that message. dear lord that is extremely bad, especially in voice but text alone is creepy. you are not her grandmother!

just imagine if some chunky ugly girl hit on you then started sending you those messages after you ignored her. all bad...

It does make you wonder if any of these chodes have actually read ANY material what so ever and I often wonder why the fuck i am still on this website

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It's because you were once a chode, you care for your fellowmen, and you love women. Some chodes put in the effort. Some don't.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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have you tried this for texting a woman that's being aloof?

you: OMG you didn't!!
her: what?!
you: hey you need to join me at starbucks, this is awesome
her: why should i do that?
you: if you don't, you're gonna miss this
her: what are you doing?
you: just come and see, can't explain over texts. but it is worth it
her: okay

when she gets there, just get a cup of coffee and start talking to her like you're having a great date. and if she pesters you about that text, then just tell her she would have missed out on a great time with you.

I've used this 3 times and it works. one turned out to be one of my best friends

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hmmm...

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If you did that to most girls I know they'd get up and leave and call you a dick.

If you have to ask whether or not you sound pathetic its because subconsciously you already know that you do. You're only looking for someone to tell you something so that you can push yourself to feel different. You have to learn when to let go. You're concerned about someone that is in no way concerned about you? For what?

Whats the situation? Lay it out plainly. You're asking a question as if your'e not in this situation. Why not lay the entire situation out here on the forum for us so that we can give you the best answer possible.

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just so you guys know...i got the idea for this from Vin Dicarlo. saw it in one of his webcasts. and as for the "turned out to be one of my friends" I meant a woman that I later became very good friends with and is my wing girl alot

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