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Depending on how serious she is about cheating on her husband, she may never text you. If this is her first time, she could go home, lose interest or just forget about it or reconsider. Thinking about cheating and saying you're down, is much different than actually going through with it. If you're serious about it, you may have to re-engage, tone back the directness and suggest a simple happy hour to give her plausible deniability in her head. Or you may have to ramp up the directness...kinda depends on the situation. Depending on the woman, it can be a big jump for her to identify as a cheater, hence you may have to give her the story that oops it just happened. Now keep in mind, for most companies, dating someone is not that big of a deal. Having an affair however, can be a big deal if discovered. Is she going to become so infatuated with you that if you do fuck her consistently she is going to want something serious and fuck with your job? Most likely not. She's 30, has kids and a husband and job...as Heywood said, you're most likely just gonna be a tool. She has shit to lose. I'd wager you would catch feelings before she does.Whatever you do, assess the entire situation before proceeding.
Her husband is in the military. I live in a super transient area so the cheating is expected among military couples. Plus we live 40 mins from each other.