So I met a girl A 8.5 on Tinder.

At the meeting there was girl B, a 7. Girl B is A's close friends cousin. B is new to town and A was showing her around. A and B get along but dont seem to like each other that much. A is more party B more 'good girl'.

I since had another meeting with A. Things went well but still no kissing or sex tho.

Both A and B like me and I have been exchanging texts. A is gone to another city for about ten days.

B probably likes me slightly more and is easier. But A is the one I want more (8.5 vs 7). Infact, over text A said that B asked for my number and really likes me.


Now what should I do in this situation? Would setting up a meeting for coffee
with B work in my favour i.e. jealousy get girls competing over me,

or could it ruin my chances with A?

Wait what? You scheduled a date with her and she brought her less attractive cousin?

She's trying to hook you up with her bro.

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Its her friends cousin. She was looking after her as the girl is new to town (I think they are staying together). On our second meeting it was just me and her.

I am pretty sure A likes me. She has been initiating conv by text with me. She said she enjoyed our meeting when we were by ourselves. etc.

btw the 'date' was just meeting up at the beach. So I think its ok to bring friend in such situation.

So why no kiss on the second 1on1 date?
Did you escalate even?

Provide some details.

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I did escalate a bit touching her on her leg etc. playfully. She did resist If I started going to far tho, so I did not. We were also talking about sex and stuff. She mentioned after, by text that she enjoyed the date and has been texting me.

Was it a lunch date?
Was it drinks @ night?

Anyway, don't play stupid jealousy games. They always either backfire or hinder your progress.

Get her out. Escalate. Find out if she's interested and do something about it.

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It was meeting at a table on beach and having a drink. So you think It could backfire?

I don't mean it much in terms of playing games. Basically should I go after both chicks or just focus on one and kind of ignore other.

It's NOT ok to bring a friend or roommate along to a date. Especially from Tinder. Wtf is going on?! First I see guys going on walks with chick's from Tinder now dual friend dates is becoming a thing?! Please guys start making some bloody moves or find chics who aren't playing. This forum is turning into a friend zone forum. It's tinder. A hook up site. So hook up. Now you wanna go to a Coffee date with this other girl? What ever happened to movie at my place? You've met her before. Just invite her over. And make a move. Invite one over.

Hmm I think your right, Ill Just get one and then the other to come chill at my place.

Dude for the love of god, talk to the one you like. Don't settle for the ugly one just because she likes you. Geez.

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The other one is not ugly, she is good. I want both.

Question is should I just focus on better one or try and get both.