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PostPosted: Sat Oct 31, 2015 3:16 pm 
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Did i up the open line?
I've really got interested in this girl at my school and so yesterday I decided to go up to her and ask for her number. This is how it went

Conversation 1:
Getting her attention. Me: Hey "her name"
Me : Can you just give me one second of your time?
Her : Sure
Me : You look pretty cute and i was wondering if i could get your number
Her : Sorry, i dont date.
Me : okay
Her : Yea sorry

2 hours later I seen her again and approached her

Me : Hey, can you just give me another second
Her : Okay sure
Me : So you said you dont date?
Her: Yea, my parents are strict, so i cant date
Me : Well i dont date either (lie, hopefully she knows)
Her : (smiled) okay...
Me : Alright here, so you put your number into my phone and I'll text you. If you don't reply, then I'll move on
Her : Haha okay
Me : Have a good day
Her : You too

Now have no idea what to text her because if she doesn't reply it means this is all over. How would you react in this situation. I guess it's sort of manipulation of getting a girl number. But on the other hand she can simply ignore and it'll be over.


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 31, 2015 4:46 pm 
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Now have no idea what to text her because if she doesn't reply it means this is all over. How would you react in this situation. I guess it's sort of manipulation of getting a girl number. But on the other hand she can simply ignore and it'll be over.
Why is this even a question lol? It's as if this is the only girl left on the planet. You're gonna waste a lot of your time on this one buddy to not get what you want.


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 31, 2015 6:09 pm 
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Me : Can you just give me one second of your time?
I stopped reading after this line, i only imagine it would get worse. Learn some game basics, you will then find out not to put girl's on pedestals.

This is what your message conveys:
'Could you be kind enough to give me your valuable attention to like me please?'

I hate the words 'be Alpha' but you need a bit of manliness behind your words, an alpha male would just say 'Hey, you seem sexy, Lets; grab a drink sometime? Give me your number' and just do it. This is also pretty bad but it much better than your weak line

You should a least study some theory because your interaction has no element of game. But at least you tried anyway, Kudos

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Me : Can you just give me one second of your time?
I stopped reading after this line, i only imagine it would get worse. Learn some game basics, you will then find out not to put girl's on pedestals.

This is what your message conveys:
'Could you be kind enough to give me your valuable attention to like me please?'

I hate the words 'be Alpha' but you need a bit of manliness behind your words, an alpha male would just say 'Hey, you seem sexy, Lets; grab a drink sometime? Give me your number' and just do it. This is also pretty bad but it much better than your weak line

You should a least study some theory because your interaction has no element of game. But at least you tried anyway, Kudos
So more alpha. I should of said "Hey you! Come here"
And yes, honestly this is my first time


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Me : Can you just give me one second of your time?
I stopped reading after this line, i only imagine it would get worse. Learn some game basics, you will then find out not to put girl's on pedestals.

This is what your message conveys:
'Could you be kind enough to give me your valuable attention to like me please?'

I hate the words 'be Alpha' but you need a bit of manliness behind your words, an alpha male would just say 'Hey, you seem sexy, Lets; grab a drink sometime? Give me your number' and just do it. This is also pretty bad but it much better than your weak line

You should a least study some theory because your interaction has no element of game. But at least you tried anyway, Kudos
So more alpha. I should of said "Hey you! Come here"
And yes, honestly this is my first time

Well, I guess, It has to be congruent though. If you look like you play too much world of war craft and it's your 1st approach of the night then it might get you some really bone crushing rejections.

Just be less supplicant with it really. For me, I dress quite quite classy so in that situation, I would personally say something like: 'Hey, I am Dragula' with a good solid tone, not at all rapport seeking.

This will help: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4VDslvC4_5w

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 31, 2015 9:07 pm 
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How you open doesn't matter, what matters is how confident you feel befor and after.

She won't care about what you say as much as she will care about how you are coming across, and how confident you seem in relation to her. She will be scanning alot more than what you said.

Words don't mean jack without core confidence.

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 31, 2015 9:21 pm 
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How you open doesn't matter, what matters is how confident you feel befor and after.

She won't care about what you say as much as she will care about how you are coming across, and how confident you seem in relation to her. She will be scanning alot more than what you said.

Words don't mean jack without core confidence.
So if i text her right now and go with something like

"Hey! Is this "name"?"
Or
"Hey! Are you that cutie that gave me your number? Lol it's that kid with the red hair"

Would that be enough to catch her attention?


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How you open doesn't matter, what matters is how confident you feel befor and after.

She won't care about what you say as much as she will care about how you are coming across, and how confident you seem in relation to her. She will be scanning alot more than what you said.

Words don't mean jack without core confidence.
So if i text her right now and go with something like

"Hey! Is this "name"?"
Or
"Hey! Are you that cutie that gave me your number? Lol it's that kid with the red hair"

Would that be enough to catch her attention?

She isn't interested. Find more girls and stop being a kiss ass with them

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 01, 2015 8:54 pm 
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So if i text her right now and go with something like

"Hey! Is this "name"?"
Or
"Hey! Are you that cutie that gave me your number? Lol it's that kid with the red hair"

Would that be enough to catch her attention?
you dont catch a girls attention through text.

You catch a girls attention when you meet her, thats where she decides if she likes you or not, depending on how cool you are in relation to her.

Texting is what you use to communicate.

If you're finding yourself having to try soooooooo hard to think of a text, chances are you're screwed.

I useually text whatever the hell i feel to a girl. and thats the way it should be. Because if i have her number i hope to have built enough attraction first that everything else is streight forward.

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Read my texting guide OP. You need that.

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So if i text her right now and go with something like

"Hey! Is this "name"?"
Or
"Hey! Are you that cutie that gave me your number? Lol it's that kid with the red hair"

Would that be enough to catch her attention?
That's pretty bad. Personally, when texting I say a lot of over-the-top stuff because it amuses me, but at the very least, have fun and tease her. Having a mindset she's better than you is the wrong way to go. You're not the kid with the red hair... you're the ginger who has fun, loves life, doesn't care what others think of him and does things to amuse himself.

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