| I think going out for a smoke, or going to another party/bar for shots works well, but if you're lying and you're caught lying, it will seem rapey/creepy. If you take someone out for a smoke and it turns out you really don't smoke, they may notice that and bail.
"Wait, you don't have a pipe in your house. Wait, do you even smoke? Bye!"
"Wait, there's no party here ... ? Bye!"
For non-smokers, who can't ask if she wants to go out for a smoke, there are other things you can ask to go outside for that are legitimate, like, "I have to go to the SPAM on the corner, let's take a walk," or "I'm going to get some pizza, aren't you starving?"
But yeah, going out for a smoke, for SMOKERS, works really well even just to move conversations forward with one particular girl.
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