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jacob palmer
 Post subject: She invited her friend
PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2015 2:42 pm 
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I asked this girl out to lunch but she said she was busy that week.

I then asked her out for coffee when she was free and she agreed.

The problem was she invited her friend along also.

What shall I do with this girl?
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2015 2:53 pm 
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Not go.

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Not go.
We decided to go together after a lecture and her friend was also waiting with her.
She did not tell me before hand her friend was coming.
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2015 3:10 pm 
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Next time don't set up daytime dates.

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RC is right. Just don't go.

She knew what you were after and brought a friend so it wouldn't be a 'date'...
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How can you call her out on this type of behaviour?

I had to go because she was with her when I arrived.

She did suggest that we reschedule for lunch a couple of days ago and we both agreed that we should work together in the last couple of days.

Is it a bad idea to just say to her that I know we suggested we schedule lunch for another day and that we work together but I do not think that is a good idea.

Its just I dont want to give her the satisfaction of my friendship.


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If she brought a friend it's because you asked her as a friend. Be more clear with your intentions. If you want to ask a girl out on a date be clear about it being a date. But don't weasel in a date as a friend and then be surprised when she thinks you're a friend.
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How can you call her out on this type of behaviour?
You don't.
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I had to go because she was with her when I arrived.
No, you did not.
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She did suggest that we reschedule for lunch a couple of days ago and we both agreed that we should work together in the last couple of days.

Is it a bad idea to just say to her that I know we suggested we schedule lunch for another day and that we work together but I do not think that is a good idea.
You don't have to say anything when you can just fade out.
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Its just I dont want to give her the satisfaction of my friendship.
Then why did you put yourself in that position?

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Missed out on the threesome inside a coffee shop toilets, bro. Lesson learnt..

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R.C. what he is telling, is that he arrenged the "date" and when he arrived, she was with her friend, in your situation man, i would inmediately tell her that you came to see her, not her friend, and leave, respect your time, you have better things to do
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I know what he's saying. And I'm saying he should not have went through with it. Only reason he did is to avoid conflict.

That's why you don't set up daytime dates, and it's also why you should make your intentions clear.

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That's why you don't set up daytime dates, and it's also why you should make your intentions clear.
Agree
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