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PostPosted: Mon Oct 12, 2015 4:18 pm 
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So in a nutshell I asked a girl out via text (I followed advice on this forum so I did not "ask her" so to speak").
She is on my course but we have different classes. We see each other often at university.
She completely ignored my invitation for lunch.

The question is how do I behave around her now?

I will completely ignore her now and have nothing to do with her but I dont want to come across as bitter or seem hurt (because I am not hurt). And I do not want to give her any satisfaction what so ever.

Lets say she says hello to me or strikes a conversation with me, what do I do?


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 12, 2015 4:22 pm 
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You proceed to spit in her face...OR...

You can just be normal - The same way you would act if you a dislike a class mate. If they ask you something, just one word reply to them.

There is no gamey answer to this, be normal

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 12, 2015 4:46 pm 
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So in a nutshell I asked a girl out via text (I followed advice on this forum so I did not "ask her" so to speak").
She is on my course but we have different classes. We see each other often at university.
She completely ignored my invitation for lunch.

The question is how do I behave around her now?

I will completely ignore her now and have nothing to do with her but I dont want to come across as bitter or seem hurt (because I am not hurt). And I do not want to give her any satisfaction what so ever.

Lets say she says hello to me or strikes a conversation with me, what do I do?
Yeah, you're obviously unphased by the whole thing. Totally not hurt.
Anyway, yeah, just be normal. Dragula laid it out as it is.

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So in a nutshell I asked a girl out via text (I followed advice on this forum so I did not "ask her" so to speak").
She is on my course but we have different classes. We see each other often at university.
She completely ignored my invitation for lunch.

The question is how do I behave around her now?

I will completely ignore her now and have nothing to do with her but I dont want to come across as bitter or seem hurt (because I am not hurt). And I do not want to give her any satisfaction what so ever.

Lets say she says hello to me or strikes a conversation with me, what do I do?
Yeah, you're obviously unphased by the whole thing. Totally not hurt.
Anyway, yeah, just be normal. Dragula laid it out as it is.
I am not hurt lol
Maybe a little annoyed at myself for not "closing".


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Her dad let her know he's no longer paying for rent so she needs to get a job and self sustain her ass.

Her roommate borrowed a dress and fucked it up by spilling wine on it.

Her ex showed up at her apartment threatening to kill himself if she won't take him back.

She was very hurt by the last guy she opened up to and is emotionally unavailable.

She finds you incompatible.

Point of this post is that there can be a million different external factors affecting her decision. Don't waste time and effort being mad at yourself because you didn't "close".
Some things you can control, others you can't. There's no such thing as 100% success rate.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 12, 2015 5:04 pm 
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Her dad let her know he's no longer paying for rent so she needs to get a job and self sustain her ass.

Her roommate borrowed a dress and fucked it up by spilling wine on it.

Her ex showed up at her apartment threatening to kill himself if she won't take him back.

She was very hurt by the last guy she opened up to and is emotionally unavailable.

She finds you incompatible.

Point of this post is that there can be a million different external factors affecting her decision. Don't waste time and effort being mad at yourself because you didn't "close".
Some things you can control, others you can't. There's no such thing as 100% success rate.
Thanks for the advice mate


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This is from another post I made a while ago. Same example applies to your situation.
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Let me put this into perspective for you.

Let's pretend you sell cars, okay?

You have a customer who comes on the lot one day and says they are looking at a car.

They go for a test drive, say they like it and they are interested, you give them a price, they say okay, let me go home and get my check book.

You get the car all cleaned up for the customer to come pick it up, get the paperwork ready to go, and the guy never comes back.

You call him the next day, he doesn't answer.

You try calling him again the day after, he sends you to voicemail.

You call him one more time over the weekend and still, no answer.

He blew you off. It's safe to say that he was probably just "stroking" you or something happened when he left. Maybe he bought another car from somewhere else? Maybe his wife put an axe on the deal?

You don't know... and it doesn't matter. Because the lead is now dead. You'll take more customers and you'll sell more cars. You don't treat is as a big deal.

Now, 6 months go by and you get a phone call. It's the dickhead who blew you off before. He was driving by your dealership and saw a car on the lot. He wants a price on it.

Are you gonna get all pissed off because he hurt your feelings blowing you off and tell him to go eat a dick or are you gonna put personal shit aside, think business, and close the fucking deal this time?

There's no right or wrong answer to be honest. It's just a matter of which guy you're going to be.

I run my dating life like a business. Hopefully that clarifies things.


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You behave like normal.

You caring so much about what she thinks that now you want to question how you should behave around her is the exact reason she ignored your invitation. You're too invested. Who cares what she's going to think? Who cares whether or not she thinks you're bitter or whether she thinks you're a loser? Who cares? I'm sure she doesn't.

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OP: Any kind of reaction from your part, let it be that you ignore her, answer with one word sentences etc, is a sign that you are butthurt, reactive and needy. Always look her in the eye with a smile, and be friendly. Keep treating her with respect. And by all means, express your desire for her if you can do it without any neediness whatsoever. You can keep joking about it if you like, with a bit of self distance.

Another way to look at it is to see rejections as a time saver. If a girl rejects you, that means "we are not meant for each other" and you go "thanks for letting me know, now I don't have to waste my time on you, and we can just be friends".


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So in a nutshell I asked a girl out via text (I followed advice on this forum so I did not "ask her" so to speak").
She is on my course but we have different classes. We see each other often at university.
She completely ignored my invitation for lunch.

The question is how do I behave around her now?

I will completely ignore her now and have nothing to do with her but I dont want to come across as bitter or seem hurt (because I am not hurt). And I do not want to give her any satisfaction what so ever.

Lets say she says hello to me or strikes a conversation with me, what do I do?
If you see her at the university every day or every other day, why the hell in the world did you invite her for lunch via text? In a uni environment, face-to-face, you simply say...

YOU: "Hi there."
HER: "Hi."
YOU: "Come. Quick. Let's go."
HER: "Where?"
YOU: "It's going to be fun. Let's go."

Disclaimer: I only use this opener and instadate invite on girls whom I have caught covertly looking at my crotch. That means, calibrate.

And who the fuck gave you advice to invite the girl via text when you could have done it face-to-face, hmm? Have balls to invite girls face-to-face especially when you get to see them every day. Jesus Fucking Christ!

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Who on this forum advised you to ask her out via text? Just curious as they are WRONG.


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So in a nutshell I asked a girl out via text (I followed advice on this forum so I did not "ask her" so to speak").
She is on my course but we have different classes. We see each other often at university.
She completely ignored my invitation for lunch.

The question is how do I behave around her now?

I will completely ignore her now and have nothing to do with her but I dont want to come across as bitter or seem hurt (because I am not hurt). And I do not want to give her any satisfaction what so ever.

Lets say she says hello to me or strikes a conversation with me, what do I do?
If you see her at the university every day or every other day, why the hell in the world did you invite her for lunch via text? In a uni environment, face-to-face, you simply say...

YOU: "Hi there."
HER: "Hi."
YOU: "Come. Quick. Let's go."
HER: "Where?"
YOU: "It's going to be fun. Let's go."

Disclaimer: I only use this opener and instadate invite on girls whom I have caught covertly looking at my crotch. That means, calibrate.

And who the fuck gave you advice to invite the girl via text when you could have done it face-to-face, hmm? Have balls to invite girls face-to-face especially when you get to see them every day. Jesus Fucking Christ!
Haha would like to see this crotch game and girls rubbing their tits in your face in action. Even then, it could be one Of those data-free placebo things like speed seduction patterns and never being able to find out ;)

Defo niche for some new ebook :D

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Haha would like to see this crotch game and girls rubbing their tits in your face in action. Even then, it could be one Of those data-free placebo things like speed seduction patterns and never being able to find out ;)

Defo niche for some new ebook :D
It's on the arm or elbow. :shock:

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