Hi guys,

Let me introduce myself, I'm 20 years old and only slept with 2 girls in my lifetime. Ive gotten to that point in my life where all my friends are in relationships and I'm standing there on the sidelines almost like someone that everyone else pities and I hate it. I can't sand it. I hardly attract any member of the female race even though I try nearly every time I'm out. I would say I prob make out with a girl once every three times I go out even when I really try and its never anything more than that. Im really sick of always being the person always third wheeling or never showing his friends his potential and most of all I'm sick of being alone ( I know sounds soppy as all hell). Not exactly looking for a relationship, just want to live a lifestyle that won't make me wish that and make me feel content with all the woman I have around me and all the potential there is.

Now I've given you my sob story, I'll give you some details. Ive read 'The Game' and tried the techniques out but they never seem to work I don't know what I'm doing wrong and in reality I can't use them the majority of the time as I am mostly trying to pick up Girls in Club's where the music is so loud that I can barley speak to the girl let alone her group. I do my best to use the three second rule and after that I find my technique very rarely works of asking the girl for her name then slowly grabbing her by the hand and dancing. What I'm truly asking is what is the best routine on the dance floor? `Whats the best steps to follow?

Really would mean a lot to get your guys advice on this... Thanks,
Rico

Why does everyone read the game? It's a worthless pile of shit. Honestly.

If you wanna read something read Models by Mark Manson. Even better, get the audiobook, he reads it himself.
That's the only book you'll ever gonna need.

Other than that, don't ever expect anything out of clubs. Some women go there to have fun with their girlfriends and get hit on solely for the attention. Others go there with the intention of getting fucked.
Either way, that's not the place to look for "something meaningful". One night stands on the other hand? sure. No better place.
But talking won't get you far. Every other guy is either talking or buying them drinks. You're in a high energy environment, so act like it. Get physical asap. Sure, use your words to fill in the gaps but let body language and and escalation do most of the communication.

Also stop thinking in terms of "routines" and "scripts". It's a highway to failure.

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Now, you have to train yourself to be happy for your friends. There is nothing that makes a man more unattractive energetically to the surrounding women than jealousy. The more you envy your friends relationships the less likely you will find yourself in a relationship because that mindset will carry over into other areas of your life and you will not be producing the proper vibe necessary when you're around women to attract them in the way that you would like.

Be happy for your friends. Mentally wish they have a successful relationship. Train yourself to be excited when you see a guy successfully getting it on with a girl.

What you want for others is what you will have for yourself.

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