2 questions.

yesterday I was at the jamba juice that has a seating area outside. I was sitting there.

today I was at another place which is a few miles from the jamba juice. this girl said "yesterday you were at the jamba juice on xyz street" and she was definitely right, I was there. but I honestly dont remember her. I told her "sorry I dont remember you. I am always checking out so many women, it's hard to keep track."

I told someone this and he said she likes me. But the problem is, she was so short with me the second time (today) she quickly nice to meet you'ed me. WTF, if she likes me why do that? and I did try to keep her by asking questions but she wouldn't stay, she just kept trying to leave.

the second question is, when a girl says something good about herself, how do you respond, do you validate or dont react? example: this girl said "I was just checking my memory" do I say "wow, you have a great memory"? I guess it depends on the girl, IDK.

I honestly hope you said that in the most playful way possible, otherwise I'm not sure what could rival the douchbag vibes I'm getting from it.

You've been here a while right? I'm sure you've heard of assuming attraction. Must you really waste time and energy logically breaking down her behavior? You're trying to understand actions done out of emotion in a logical way. It's never gonna happen.
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Where's the good in "I was just checking my memory"?
Anyway, how you respond depends on your personality. I like to tease. Give with one hand, take with the other.

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You questioned yourself from the very start. There was no way that the attraction would be maintained after that. At that point you're just trying to keep your head above water.

Girls aren't just approaching a random dude to remind him that she saw him yesterday unless there was some attraction at the start. But whether there is it isn't the rule is the assume attraction. Behave and act as if they already are. And that doesn't mean saying " You like me don't you". It ain't necessary. If you already know that they like you there is no need to ask.

All you had to say was " Yeah I was there. Whats up? I'm Bart ( Handshake)... You want something? its on me". What ever happen to being cool? Things can escalate shortly after.

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