I'm going to make this quick as possible

Basically my core question is should I get rid of this girl, even though I don't have any other quick options to replace her.

I've been seeing this girl for about 2-3 months, she is not the most attractive, and I know I can do better..
We are not "together" officially and I told her I'm not ready for that shit

The only thing I get out this situation is sex, which is good, sometime she uses sex as a tool to compensate for her lack which is quite unattractive, but I'm just getting bored with her.

This girl is a complete mess, no career, she deals with depression and anxiety...yeah a complete mess

I came to a great realization when I solo backpacked through South America last month, it really opened up my eyes because of the great experience. I recommend travel for personal growth and etc. Also I came in close contact with several other attractive girls. I'm talking about 8-9s who became great hangout buddies and I was able to lay a few.

So the question is should a guy feel like he has to settle for this one girl, just to have someone to bang at his discretion. This girl is way below my standards not just physically but in so many other ways. I hate to walk away but I need to level up, I know she really cares about me and so on. But deep down I believe this girl knows she can't offer me much.

So should I get rid of her..which puts me back to square 1..

I have seen this many many times, in my days as a nice guy. This is a situation that should be handled with tact. I'll tell later why it should be handled with tact. From my point of view this is a girls with almost to no self-confidence, which is tricky.

You are wondering if you should dump her or not. Sometimes you need to be brutal to achieve what you want. Seen how you write, you really do not like this girl anymore. I would say dump her but be warned! It should be handled with tact. You already have seen that self-confidence is important, with the other girls on your travels.

Over my life I saw other people in the same situation. The girls in all cases had no self confidence and for every guy involved in his story, he did not know what to do. You want to be as friendly as possible when you tell her you do not want to see her any more. Why? Some cases I know of ended up with attempted suicide others did end in suicide. I do not know what level the girls self-confidence is, based on your story it is low really low, so please do be careful.

What I would say is this "Girl listen you have a fantastic personality, I strongly feel like... That strong connection we had, it died died. I do not want to keep you on a leash and keep pretending I still like you. So I know that it is in OUR(emphasis) best interest to, not see each other any more." Please be careful with this stuff.

Kind regards,

TheDiceMan

No dude. Stay with her for life for the sake of not hurting her.

Why is this even a question? It's not your job to caretake for her well being, as cold as that may sound.
Sure be human about it, because why the fuck would you wanna purposely hurt someone, but leave her none the less.
You're the most important person in your life. Give yourself the merit you deserve.

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Why is it people here stop going out and chasing other girls as soon as they lay a girl?

Continue to go out! Level up along the way! You're Probably seeing this girl 3+ times week and doing girlfriend and boyfriend stuff.

Spread your seed man. At least do it till you obtain the goal (being good with women) go through the thorns to find the Rose's

You're more likely to get laid when you have a girl on the side. I know this pick up shit is a chore but that's like giving lifting weights a break because you seen a little growth...

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Tell her your dumping her, just as you blow a nut.

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Dude, take her to the gym and get her working out and eating healthy.

Teach her how to dress sexier for you. Maybe show her a thing or two about makeup if you can.

And if you're a cool guy, your personality will start to rub off on her. She'll start to be "cool" too.

See, because she really likes you and cares about you, she wants to be a part of your life. She'll do anything to make that happen.

You can turn this girl who's a "4" into an "8 or 9" in a matter of about 6 months to a year.

You know, I am messing around with this 3, just to practice and test things and whatnot. She really likes me but I told her exactly what this is and that it will never be anything more. Oddly enough, I have learned a lot about taking her places. People see me, dressed nice, fit nice looking guy, and they see this... 3... hanging out with me. All the sudden, I have never felt more noticed in my life.


I think this is what Mystery used to call a "pivot" and I must say it seems to work wonders. Now if I could just find a way to get these girls eyeballing me without messing up my advantage here. God I wish I knew how to have a convo.

You should try walking around with a 10.

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If I had a 10 its not walking around I would be doing with her.

But my confidence is not that high yet anyway, just like my game. I think I'd be satisfied with a nice 8. Im feeling horrible after being sick anyway. I need a work out but dont want to push it too bad. Certainly not in a head state to be gaming. In fact I think ima make a post about my head state