1. Do you call or text?
2. How many days after number closing do you do this?
3. How many days after number closing do you arrange meet?
4. How many days are there generally between number closing and the meetup day?
5. If you call, how many calls do you make before arranging meet?
6. If you text, how many days do you text her before arranging meet?
7. How many texts do you average per day?
8. If you mix both, do you arrange meet by text or call?
9. If you mix both, please explain your method.
10. Is your method successful?

Focusing on getting numbers is NOT efficient. Instead, focus on a bigger compliance test (the instadate) and do all you can to make it work (give girls fun) and then number close after the instadate.

When you have done that, your ten questions are hugely unnecessary. Girls will be calling and texting you instead for the f-close if you have properly escalated during the instadate.

However, if you need a good guide to texting and phone calls, RC nailed it right on the head, here:

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Can you not be analytical as fuck for 2 minutes...?

If you like her and she likes you, none of this shit matters.

So relax. Quit tweaking out about running the "perfect set."

If you keep thinking like this, you can't keep wondering why girls aren't into you.

Hey superstar,

OK so for starters stop thinking about it so much.
You could analyse everything if you want - this will only put you on edge.

You don't have to wait and there is literally no set time to do so. We are people not computer game's.

I understand that your passionate to find the perfect solution. This is good.

What I would do is text her that same night - give it at least 30min's: then ping her a text - make it light and playful, often you can then end up meeting again that night.

Be more spontaneous and focus your meeting to weekdays. Start with creating an emotional spark that LOL moment - move to creating a connection around that spark, then set up the date. Consider them as check points once you hit one don't reverse and go to the same one - it's inefficient to do this.

Invite her to places or event's your already going to. If it's the same night you closed then something like:
"Just hit this hot little dive bar - you should come, it's ripe with sounds + I wanna hear more about Y"
Y = what ever your connecting on when you closed.

Give it a try and stop over thinking - it will come across to her and everyone there.
Stay strong, you can do it. I believe in YOU.

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Most of the questions are really unnecessary.

What I really want to know is how quickly I should move in arranging a meet?

You number close her, message her the next day and arrange a meet for the day after?

I feel that's moving way too fast, but perhaps it works? I don't know, that's what I want to know.

Focus on escalation, giving girls fun, and building emotional connection so you can instadate; not the phone number.

Everything speeds up from that point forward.

If you focus on the phone number; everything SLOWS down.

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Don't be so analytical about it.

Read my guide, answers everything you asked.

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Instadate is not possible for me 5 days out of 7. Even though I understand that is what I should be striving for. I game in the afternoons before I go to work, so I can only number close.

My current strategy is to send her 3/4 light messages per day for roughly 5/6 days and then arranging a meet.

R.C. I will read your guide today. Cheers.

This is how you should do it:

"You start with

The interaction. Before you can text her you need her number. Makes sense? Good. Not just that, but you gotta get it with a hint of style, because if your initial interaction is shit your text game will suffer. The content of your message will be altered, to your advantage or not, by the personality you've portrayed.

If you're a cheeky fun loving bastard, pretty much anything you text will be taken with a hint of humor. Which is more often than not a good thing.
On the other side of the spectrum, if you're acting all serious while getting those digits, don't be surprised if she doesn't get the racist joke you just attempted.
This is why the first impression has such resonance. Plus it's easier to create a bond or make some sort of an inside joke based on your initial conversation."

That's from RC's guide.

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Go to work earlier so you can instadate. You can instadate for 10 to 30 minutes. Nothing fancy. Nothing expensive. Make sure it's fun and memorable. Something like, "Let's grab some of those pink cotton candies" then tag her along.

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Yeah, this. Instadate doesn't mean date in the "traditional" sense. Even a coffee in hand while taking a 15-20 minute walk in the park can be considered an instadate.

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2. Same Day
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5. 1-2
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7. Depends.
8. Call, but once an emotional connection is formed it doesn't make a difference.
9. I'll usually call during the evening, text happen during the day.
10. Yes.

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Way to give him more shit to think about now so he can be even more confused. Good job.

That actually helped A LOT.

I don't know any better, so I wasn't aware that you can move a lot faster than I have been doing.

I wasn't aware that it's possible to arrange a meet two days after number closing, or that it's wise to call her the same day you meet her, or that you can move as fast as he says he does, or that calling girls still works and is advised. I always assumed that moving that fast would be needy and trying to force it.

It's a great reply, because it answered everything I wanted to know.

I'm hoping that more people can chime in with the same answers, so that I can see if that is the case right across the board, in which case I will realise for sure that I move way too slow.

Stop looking for fucking rules dude. You can't be so analytical with girls! I'll say it again! Shit!! You will lose your fucking mind!

Every girl is different. Every person is different.

Some girls won't text you back but they will answer your phone calls. Sometimes its the opposite. Its called being human. If someone texts me right now, I might not respond right away but a phone call, I'll answer.

If you call a girl 2 days after and she doesn't answer, what are you going to do? Ask us what you should do again?! You really expect to be able to keep girls around like that? Good luck.

You can't keep this over analysis of every situation going. You will seriously go crazy.

Let. Go.

Do whatever you think is right. Learn how to act based on the feeling you get from your gut and stop looking for some goofy step by step system. It's not going to work. You're going to creep girls out because you're being so fucking fake.

Be real and you'll be much happier.