The scenario:

Girl of my drems approaches me in a club a couple months back. We chat, i think nothing of it..5 minutes later her friends coming up to me saying 'she thinks your hot' 'she wants to get with you' etc etc. I'm thinking i can't quite believe this but i roll with it anyway, we end up chatting more and actually leaving the club to find somewhere quiet. We end up kissing/fondling/rolling around etc, it was great. We return to the club and part ways, she asks for my number - this is great. Next day she texts me, 'hey nice meeting you last night' blah blah blah. We meet up the following week for a date..i still can't quite believe it, which made me slightly nervous, which i think subconciously shone through during the date.

Anyway after the date, i drop her a text a couple days later....and nothing. So i basically assume she wasn't in to it..whatever. Week later she calls me out the blue, wants to get things back on..i agree. Following week i see her again in the club, we end up kissing and actually sleeping together that night. She then wants to meet up the next day, i agree..i'm always being super nice, yet still a little bit awkward/shy because i'm still thinking in the back of my head how the fuck have i pulled this off. Anyway she's all like i wanna hang out next week. I agree..but when it comes to it she bails last minute. This happened a couple of times...it's always like 'somethings come up' or 'my friends grandma died'. Now i'm not an idiot, i know when someones trying to let you down nicely. So i left it, didn't wanna be the needy naggy desperate guy.

Anyhow upon reflection, and after reading a few books on the game/pua. I came to the realisiation that i didn't apply any of these techniques what so ever with this girl. I was always the nice guy who was there when she wanted, probably not any excitment in it what so ever for her. She's super hot, a solid 10/10, travels a lot, so i think this is what she probably seeks. I know the initial attraction was there, still not 100% sure on the sex, maybe she was just drunk and super horny. So....my question is, can i redeem myself on this one using PU techniques ? Or should i just accept it's not gunna happen and move on to the next ?

Any advice from anyone who's been in a similar situation?

Fuck them better next time. Best way to get repeat business. You also seem too available and not calling her out when she keeps cancelling.

p.s. Check my sig because you're not immersed with pick up. You just got lucky and have oneitus

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To me it sounds like she's trying to get back at someone she may be dealing with. Its a bit too aggressive in my opinion to just be a normal casual thing. Especially considering your attitude throughout the entire situation. There is no sense of entitlement, no sense that you even believe your worthy to be in this situation.

Lack of PU techniques is not what you needed. What you need is the proper attitude. Getting women is mostly attitude. Its the vibe, and the frame your project. Its your mindstate - how you see yourself and how you see them. Pedestal a woman mentally and she will pick up on the vibe and treat you like that which you are projecting onto her - superiority. Pedestal yourself first and she will pick up on this vibe and treat you like that which you are projecting.

Frame first, you can apply techniques afterward if thats what you're into.

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Eddie - an interesting read. Thank you for that.

I literally stopped reading at the first sentence. "Girl of my dreams".. Really dude.

I'm confident Eddie and Peb already covered everything, but seriously...

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Haha, more of an indirect description or a common term perhaps.