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most girls will reject a guy that approaches her. you have to be ok with that statistic. if you are not ok with it, then pick up is not for you.
and i am not sure what you mean by "trying hard"
trying hard = needy
Try hard = dress well, join a gym, build an interesting life, put a lot of effort into making yourself attractive to women. Anyone who is successful at it has put a lot of effort. Perhaps it takes effort to "try hard" without appearing to try hard.
Ask Dragula... did he try hard? I think so.
I go out now and most of the time I don't say anything. I know nothing about the people that I go out to not talk to. But a few months ago, I had a streak where I would go out and get drunk and that would give me courage to talk to people. I remember one time finding out that a girl was a young mom and just out to have fun and her friend worked at a T-shirt printing shop. Cool. And when I'm not drunk, I don't have the courage to find out these simple facts. But I do not drink. I can't. It is not a legitimate tool to handle anxiety and is so bad for you. By the time I actually get courage to speak to these girls.... they will all have three kids by someone who wasn't scared to speak to them, even to find out the little basic facts of their life like where do they work.