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PostPosted: Fri Jul 31, 2015 5:28 am 
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What do I do here?

She is 100% Interested. Gave me head already, with 0 dates.

She Is casually dating, while trying to figure out if she wants a boyfriend or not.

I am going on vacation for a week.

I txt: Me: Hope some lucky guy doesn't score you while I'm gone ;)
Her: Well there might be one :P
Me: Guess I'll have to find myself a nice vacation girl then, and maybe postpone that sushi date I offered you ;)
Her: lol Jealous much?
Me: what? You can do it and I can't? ;)
Her: Seeking someone else and telling me about it, and then postponing a date, is jealousy :P
Me: Lol. ALL I am saying is that I do owe another girl a date to the Drive In. Maybe I will get that out of the way first ;). Ps. How am I seeking someone out and you aren't?
Her: I'm just saying I don't want to know about other girls. You asked.
Me: I was more joking around than asking, but ok lol

Txts went one-word casual for a few hours (about 3)

Now she is BOMBARDING with txts full of flirtations, and winks and capitals and when I respond casually (because I am tired and don't want to get into lengthy chat) she quickly responds.

Please guide me on this one? It's confusing me

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 31, 2015 7:15 am 
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You have created this hole yourself by asking if she is going to meet someone...this is overwise known as...being needy. You then mentioned you're going to meeting other girls to make her jealous which pushes her away more...hence her reaction.

Just say "Will send you some pics of me on the beach to make you jealous if you're lucky ;)" send her pics of your vacation stuff to keep her engaged. (Not too much)

Assume she is into you and stop being jealous. Please. Stop mentioning it. It's not a shit test if you forced information out of her.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 31, 2015 7:32 am 
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You're an idiot, playing a kids game.

You're needy and its only a matter of time before she figures it out if not already. Not interested in helping you play stupid games with this chick plus she likely deserves better.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 31, 2015 10:45 am 
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Lol, n2 going to town on OP.

He's not far from the truth though. You are needy. And playing game like that backfire in your face - point blank.
It pretty much already did, but yeah. Women pick up on needy vibes from miles away.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 31, 2015 6:05 pm 
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n2TheVoid... relax, man. Were you never a little less clued up with women? You've come a long way, but OP doesn't know everything that you know... he doesn't have the abundance mentality that you probably have, and neediness got the better of him. I can relate, cause I used to be the same. He probably doesn't even realise that he's being a dick by trying to make her jealous.

Having said that, you are right. I just think it was a little uncalled for.

OP, never show jealousy. Just assume that she's into you. She clearly is, which is why she got jealous. Want to know something though? Women can spot game playing a mile off and they find it repulsive. I promise you, man. I used to do it, so I know. Just be her best option.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 31, 2015 7:19 pm 
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You went from getting defensive to explaining yourself to backhand apologizing and you don't know why things got one wordy? Every text won't be the perfect one..everyone makes text mistakes, but its all about how you recover. When she said " Jealous much? " all you had to do was respond with " totally :P " or something similar. Acknowledge it and move on, because you were in fact jealous. Own it and recover.

Now unless I'm not reading this correctly she is currently bombarding you with flirtatious messages? Where exactly do you need help?

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 05, 2015 7:25 am 
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everything is wrong here...

dont ask girl that shit. never ever. (what answer did you expect? "no, I will wait for you my prince!"???)

sometimes girl don't lie, so maybe there is somebody else who is chasing her, so be better and alfa

you were really jealous and very beta and she pwned you :)


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