Friend of my girlfriend's:

-When talking to her before, she put her hand on my forearm and said "you don't understand"
-When talking to her before, she grabbed my arm as I was walking out of the room
-When talking to her before she hit me in the stomach playfully
-She calls me "shithead" and tells me to "shut the fuck up" when I tease her
-has said "wow you actually have feelings" when I did something nice for my girlfriend
-Asked if I had a workout shirt on, and if she could feel the material, not my muscle, just the material
-Asked if she could have some of the food on my plate and used her fork from my plate
-I friended her on fb, she defriended me because she didn't want me to know about her personal life with her boyfriend, so that I wouldn't tell my girlfriend. Then she friended me again
-When she is absorbed with her own love life, doesn't really say much to me at all when we all hang out
-Doesn't go way out of her way to talk to me on FB or in person, but when we do, the above fliratious stuff happens

This all happens in front of my GF.

She is typically pretty jealous of my GF.

Things aren't serious with my GF so wondering if should break it off for chance to smash with this one?

Your girlfriend will start to look appealing all over again once you leave her to smash someone else and realize theres more to life than pussy. But if you're young and just don't care.. Fuck it. You got time.

I've found that when a guy has a good girlfriend and he introduces his girlfriends to his friends his friends will look at his girl and think to themselves "wow. She's beautiful and so nice. I want to get a girl just like that". But when a girl has a good man and introduces her man to her friends her friend will think "Wow.. He's so handsome and nice. I have to get him". Not verbatim, but thats the emotion. Generally men are in competition with each other over purpose, and women are in competition with each other over attractiveness.

I'd say leave it, only because I've done and each time I did it wasn't worth it. And to the question.. When you assume attraction you don't have to count IOI's.

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Thanks man, I mean the whole IOI thing, I was just confused as to whether:

Breaking the touch barrier is always indicative of attraction (her hand on your forearm when talking, light punches, wanting to "feel the material of my shirt")

I've found that women will never touch me unless there is attraction, that personal space barrier is big with them

As to youth, I just turned 27 so I'm young ish, however I discovered PUA at 21 and have since had several LTRs so I want to be single again possibly. These girls are early 20's

Kezia Noble said that IOI are pretty much arbartry and that IOD are much more effective at gauging where a women stands with you. Besides looking for IOI take up too much mental space and can distract you especially if your new to the game.

You'll never know until you make a move and find out for yourself.

I can't remember where, but I know I've read something about the touch barrier with women and PUA. For example, women are VERY in tune with their personal space and will shy away from anyone breaking into it unless they are attracted to them.

Does anyone have a good resource or link on this?

Oh stop it already.

Assume every woman is attracted to you. Did she touch you? Great, she wants you.

Simple as that. It can't possibly be true 100% of the time but what the hell are you gonna do? analyze every single instance of mannerism she throws your way? determine her attractedness levels towards you by the angle of her feet pointing at you?

There's are guidelines. It's good to be aware that if she's finding excuses to touch you there's a very realistic chance she's into you. That's all there is to know.

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I knew I'd get some of those responses, but why bother with any of these discussions if we can't break things down a bit for all our benefit?

I'm in a position of power with women right now and I generally do act as though every woman is attracted to me when gaming them. But since I have something to lose in this instance, I want to hedge my bets when I take this risk.

Are you like 15?

don't ever listen to a word that comes out of her clueless, cute little feminine mouth.

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