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PostPosted: Thu Jul 23, 2015 12:19 am 
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There are these girl's that will take your money whether they make you or you just give it to them literally. But once in awhile you will meet one that you intend to offer dinner (food) or in my case I bought her a $6.00 flashcard because you definitely need one in college to save your electronic files, etc onto it but I noticed these types of girl's will insist to pay you back or pay for it. Why do they do that? What is their agenda? They don't want to feel obligated, they feel guilt or remorse? What's their deal??


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 Post subject: Re: need some feedback
PostPosted: Thu Jul 23, 2015 2:25 am 
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It could be that they don't want to feel in debt to you in any way. That can happen, especially in a school setting like that. "Influence" by Robert Cialdini is a good book that goes in detail on that.

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 Post subject: Re: need some feedback
PostPosted: Thu Jul 23, 2015 7:51 am 
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Could just be how she was raised

Could just be as the other person stated that she doesn't want to be indebted to you (in other words have a guy buy her stuff as a 'sex bribe' behavior)

Could just be she thinks you're a broke ass

Could just be she respects you and doesnt want you to think she's a user

Who f*cking knows, and more importantly it doesn't matter.


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 Post subject: Re: need some feedback
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Could just be how she was raised

Could just be as the other person stated that she doesn't want to be indebted to you (in other words have a guy buy her stuff as a 'sex bribe' behavior)

Could just be she thinks you're a broke ass

Could just be she respects you and doesnt want you to think she's a user

Who f*cking knows, and more importantly it doesn't matter.


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 Post subject: Re: need some feedback
PostPosted: Thu Jul 23, 2015 9:22 am 
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1) Stop paying for girl's stuff

2) Yes, some girls will feel obligated to spend time with you when you pay for stuff or feel uncomfortable with the layout of the relationship when you pay for their stuff

3) You will get more girls in your life when they pay for their own items

4) A small percentage of women are evil scheming money grubbers. Most are absolutely awesome. Not paying for their stuff will teach you that.

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 Post subject: Re: need some feedback
PostPosted: Thu Jul 23, 2015 10:15 am 
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Why do they do that?
Because it's the normal fucking thing to do.
What's their agenda? the hell are you talking about? they're being normal human beings.

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