being 5'5" means I cant even think about approaching half the girls because they are taller than me

sometimes I wonder how it feels to be tall? how does it feel when you are like 6'2" and you can be sure that you will never run into a girl taller than you?

6'3" and met at least one girl taller than me.

It's cool man. You can see the rooftop of cars and shit.

Get high heels. You gotta see it dude.

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Thats a limited belief man. I have and many others have been with women taller than them. A womans cares more about how you make her feel than she does about what height you are. Sure she may turn her nose up at you before you approach, but if you can make her laugh after your approach, if you can charm her, and if you can seducer her, the nose will come right back down.

Stop mind fucking yourself. This is a constant thing with you. How about you go out and approach 20 women taller than yourself and see what results you come back with and then ask how you can improve.

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I'm 6'1 and I've been with girls taller than me. You can get with anyone. Your limitation is just in your head.

Join the same height club:

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You take it for granted

I'm 6'2 and I don't really think about height (myself or the woman). But I've got a couple of buddies who are like 5'5 who only go for girls shorter them. Does sound shit the amount of women it cuts out for you

But I lack in other areas - no one is perfect

This is true. I've met women who have an over 6' criterion yet are completely cool with me (I'm under 6). ANYWAY a woman having such a superficial standard isn't worth my while anyway but its def never affected me.

If you let some limiting belief rule your life than you'll project it to the world and people won't take to you well. You'll then convince yourself that its because of your height (or whatever limiting belief you've created). Nasty cycle really,

Man everyone is different shapes and sizes. This is why I don't' really care that I'm a thin guy anymore...

In summary ignore physical differences for the most part???

I also have done sexual things with girls that are taller and wider than me.

Just thought I would hack your post hehehehe xxxxx

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I'm 6 ft 3 and get a lot of girls. However, my best friend is 5 ft 5 and he fucked over 40 girls in 8 months last year (the other 4 months were a relationship) - that's more than I can say for most PUA's lol. He has high standards, too. VERY high. Don't think that being short limits your options.

I'll tell you what it's like being tall:

1. Your posture is fucking shit, unless you really try hard

2. The chances of putting on muscle, are fucking halved

3. Guys stare at you, in a "I'm more alpha than you" way everywhere you go lol, you notice it more when you focus on it. It's laughable.

4. You realise that short people have problems too, so you should shut up moaning and realise how cool you are

5. You realise that you're cool, admire your reflection, take some action and get some pussy

...good and bad, just like being short

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Not sure about 1, 2 and 3

I find weight training (I do strength training rather than bodybuilding) helps with posture. I can have better posture by 'trying' but my default posture is better than most. I think a stronger back will help with it (deadlifts)

Also, you put on muscle fine and have more muscle than short guys by default (because there is less of them), however you need to weigh more to look like you lift, the taller you are. So, more work to look big/strong but I prefer this than to be short

I don't get people trying to out alpha me - maybe getting bigger will help there too ?

I meant looking big, rather than putting on muscle. If a guy has an arm half the length of mine, he's gonna look huge with 15 inch biceps, where I'd look ridiculous (for example)

Getting big does help with posture, but short guys tend to have better posture by default - 2 guys who don't lift, but one is 10 inches taller, the short guys posture would be better generally

the out alpha thing, may just be down to a reputation gained from being a prick when I was in my teens, and living in a rough area.

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MOST of the time it all comes down to how you see yourself.

We create our own limitations, and sometimes when we're kids some real shittyass people tell us/project onto us all the shitty things they feel towards themselves.

If you tell yourself you're too short, too fat, too tall, too this and too that after a bit you'll buy into it and it WILL affect your game for certain.

And yes, there's always something you can do about it. Obviously (as with this example) you can't make yourself taller but you can work on proper posture, dress to your body type, etc. The fat guy can put down the bag of chips, go for a run, and hit up the local gym a few times a week to start. Ask yourself "is there something I can do about it?" and if so do it. If you wear the same blah thing all the time go out and expand your wardrobe. Look at the latest fashion magazines like GQ and see what's fashionable and try a variety of these clothes to see which mesh best with who you are.

I believe the guy above that his 5'5 friend is pulling hotties left right and centre. It's his mindset. He doesn't hold himself back, and is likely less constrained when around people and more himself. People, particularly women find that enjoyable to be around - who wouldn't. Instead of being around the guy who keeps rehashing "I'm too short" mantra in his head and is perpetually looking externally for any evidence of this (real or not) instead of being himself and in the moment with those around him.

I've been working out most my life. I am ridiculously jacked - I would have guys say to me if they were me they'd just walk around shirtless everywhere. But guess what, it didn't help me get more women. Not at all in fact. I had a frame that pussy should just be falling out of the sky now - and basically waited, and waited....and waited some more...and grew a bit frustrated that wasn't happening. It was MY attitude. I created my own limitation in the sense that I told myself that having an amazing body is enough for women to open me (this was quite a while ago I held this view incidentally, I know better now). It's actually laughable looking back at my mindset - so out-of-touch with reality. I see younger guys get into bodybuilding and they tell me after a bit that all of a sudden they're getting all these women and they (falsely) attribute it to their physiques. I tell them that's not the case at all. They just FEEL more confident as a byproduct are able to engage with more women thereby creating more opportunities for themselves. Sure, women may like wash board abs and big muscles, but having those things IS NOT enough in and of itself for women to throw themselves at you. At best they'll just hang around you a bit more in hopes you'll open them. But you still gotta do the work, have no illusions about it.

How you FEEL about yourself is directly (and positively) correlated to the opportunities and quality of opportunities you'll have in life. This obviously extends to the women in your life.