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PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2015 12:22 am 
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Hey I have never had a girlfriend and after coming on this forum and watching videos I asked my first girl out, and we actually started talking.

I'm going to ask more girls out and get more numbers and stuff, but for this one girl it turns out she is a muslim and on ramadan, and she can't hang out/party for a month. And on top of that she is like a religious and family oriented girl, so I know for a fact this isn't going to work out but I want to improve my skills with women.

My question is: what am i supposed to do for the next month with her? Do I text her and call her regularly, do i wait for her to call? How do i not come off as needy and stuff, please refer me to links and articles and any advice is appreciated.

thanks guys I've been reading the game by Neil Strauss and i feel like it's going to change my life, I'm going to start asking more girls out and stuff which i've always been so scared to do


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I had the same situation but it's ended up being 2 months

What I did: kept in contact by texting the girl, while still going out and gaming other women. Act as if it's not gonna happen, which will make you want to go out more and meet new ones. Don't think 'I've got one now, so I don't need to try and attract new ones' - you haven't got anything

I SPAM mine probably a few times each week, not replying to some of her messages and letting her message me first a few times. She actually messaged me the other day to say someone's just asked her to be exclusive, but I don't care and am still seeing her tonight (for a FIRST DATE). My point is that someone else might go for her or she might lose interest but who cares? Treat it as a slight possibility and go meet more women


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My question is: what am i supposed to do for the next month with her? Do I text her and call her regularly, do i wait for her to call? How do i not come off as needy and stuff, please refer me to links and articles and any advice is appreciated.
Waiting 5 weeks for a first date is needy whichever way you go about it. If you had other options, would you wait for this one? You'd probably entertain the thought, because why not, but you'd keep yourself otherwise busy during that time.
So get other options. Talking to her every 2-3 days is fine as long as you're doing it passively and not actively pursuing her as your 'main target'.

Also, if you wanna read The Game, fine, read it, but if you want to read something that will actually help you out read Models by Mark Manson. Or get his audiobook, he reads it himself.

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Yeah I agree with the other guys, game other girls during the month and talk to her passively if your THAT into her. If not, save your time and pay attention to the other 3.5 billion females.

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