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where girls won't invest in the conversation by taking my bait and asking a personal question so I can steer the conversation personal.
You're asking them about carrots and then switching to personal questions. First off, they know why you're talking to them. And you beating around the bush with your interest isn't something they see as "cute". When you go from friendly to personal / seduction, that sudden and incongruent shift makes it pretty obvious you have a hidden agenda. That in turn makes them distrustful of you.
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I suspect I need to either make the bait juicier or change something about my sub-communication. I start to get tired of being on my feet and going through so many interactions that fizzle the longer I stay out, that I think my energy level declines. So even though I'm saying the same words, girls are reacting differently to them. Has anyone had a similar experience or have any general advice to offer on how to counteract this?
The whole bait mentality sets you in a frame in which you have to trick the girl into having a conversation with you. Which basically means you're putting her worth above your own before you even start talking to her. You're running catch up from the start. No wonder your energy declines.
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Also, does anyone have advice on how to open a two set during the day without a wing?
It's killing me to have to pass on beautiful women in a two (or more) set because I can't think of a way to isolate them and get the number without alienating others in the group.
You hardly need a wing to pull a number close especially during the day. Of-course you don't want to alienate the group, but that becomes significantly harder not to do when again, you're talking about carrots when in fact your true intentions are getting the cute girl's digits. Not to mention isolation.
I get it OP, you said in the start that "direct openers" are not your thing. Guess what? they aren't anyone's preferred thing when starting off. When you talk weather it's easy to play a rejection off because you weren't interested in the girl in the first place right? It's like asking her out on the 1st of April and when she declines you can always say it was a joke.
If you're gonna go through the grind, do it right in the first place. Direct is "riskier", it will expose you to more rejections, but with that comes a steeper learning curve, much better results and less wasting of your own time.
"Hi, I saw you from over there and thought you were cute so I wanted to meet you."
or if that feels to uncomfortable at first reassure her with something like
"Hi, I know this is random but I thought you were cute blablabla."
In the end it's your decision OP, but playing in the amateur league won't get you to the pros.