So a good buddy of my mine throws a party last night. He invites a chick for me to a party, since he built a rapport with her last weekend(I was out of town). He knows target as well as I do, which is very little.
Anyways, I talked to her for a good bit during party. It was decent conversation. I separate from her for awhile to socialize with other people with intentions of talking to her again. All of this is towards the end of night BTW.

By the time I get back to her, I see her flirting with that same buddy that invited her and he s reciprocating. In fact, i noticed through out the night that he pretty much was gaming her after I ended my conversation with her.
This friend knew I was interested in the girl. It was a point of talk the last couple of days leading up to party. His words, "I got you bro!"(being a good wingman, etc)

Long story short, everybody left the party for the bars(including me), except for target and buddy. I don't know what happened between them. They were both really drunk.

My question is, should I be mad at my buddy? Was any kind of bro code broken lol. I could care less about target. I personally was mad, but going forward, how should I approach the situation? We've had our issues in past and feel like this is the final straw.

I personally don't see myself doing what he did if roles were reversed, but that's just me.

side note: He was definitely trying to hide who he was with later that night when my buddy was on the phone with him. "I can't tell you who im with, b/c it would probably make someone mad". That was his response when my friend asked him why he didn't come out to the bars.


Any advice/input would be nice!

Thanks!

Why towards the end?

I wing for friends sometimes but if you're just wasting time and it's obviously not going anywhere then you shouldn't really be mad at him for doing what you're clearly not going to.

Maybe communicate better from now on.

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Sounds like you were just "talking" and he was making something happen. Hell and he brought the girl for you. That involved no work on your part.

It was a free meal, all you had to do was eat it. You picked at the plate, played with the food, walked away from it and so he ate it. Whats the big deal? You have to be more upset with yourself for not taking advantage of the situation. This isn't some girl you brought to the party, he brought her for you and you didn't make the best of it fast enough. Let him have that. No big deal.

its nothing to ruin a friendship over. Just a random girl..

My only thing is that he should of texted you or said something. Not make that snarky comment, but whatever. Whats done is done.

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