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PostPosted: Thu May 28, 2015 4:47 am 
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It happens id say 5 times a night and i was wondering if anyone has come up with the perfect response or action to when a girl says "I have a boyfriend" when they clearly dont? i usually completely ignore it as if it hadnt been said but want to know if there is something better i can be doing.


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PostPosted: Thu May 28, 2015 6:15 am 
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There is something better you can be doing. Talking to someone else.

She's either lying and doesn't have a bf, or is telling the truth and she actually has a bf. Either way, words are meaningless. It's all about her intentions. And her intentions are screaming "I'm not interested".

Sure you can turn her around, you almost always can. But at the same time it's almost always never worth the time and effort.

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It happens id say 5 times a night and i was wondering if anyone has come up with the perfect response or action to when a girl says "I have a boyfriend" when they clearly dont? i usually completely ignore it as if it hadnt been said but want to know if there is something better i can be doing.


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"oh, those matters never really concerned me"

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"I woudn't"

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PostPosted: Thu May 28, 2015 11:58 am 
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I usually say "how about 2?"

But at this point i'm wasting my breathe on uninterested girls

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PostPosted: Thu May 28, 2015 12:35 pm 
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Only very few girls will tell you they have a boyfriend if they are interested in you. Most of them just use it as a polite "FUCK OFF" whether they're single or not. If they're in that 1% then the best course of action is to just simply ignore it, other than that you're just wasting time you could be using to have fun with a girl that is into you instead.

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The trick isn't figuring out how to respond, because it doesn't matter.

The trick is figuring out how to genuinely be unshaken when you are hit with this statement. Its never about what you say with women, its all about how you say it, and the "how" while be directly influenced by how you feel on the inside/your frame just prior to your response.

The greatest comeback on the planet will be useless if its delivered with a weak frame. So you have to begin to condition yourself through autosuggestion that it doesn't make a difference whether she has a boyfriend or not. You have to understand and believe internally, that you have the ability to elevate her entire life. Whats a boyfriend that isn't elevating her? You would be recusing her from a fire breathing dragon.

This is about getting your confidence and frame right. Believing in your mind, soul, and your heart that you don't give a shit, because what you're offering is something she couldn't get anywhere else.

When you get there, it won't matter how you respond. The tone and confidence that follows your statement will be all she needs to "feel" to let her guard down.

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