This is happening to a 34 year old almost like myself. Its frustrating, honestly, to not be able to go out and get laid. I also have the religous burdens, fears of the country due to the crises, weighing heavily on me. All I want is to have sex with decent women! If I were back in Daytona, I would be doing better than I did before. I just do not this crappy upstate. In my town, I don't want to be seen but its really people that know/knew me. They see me complain on FB and do nothing they never invite me to anything either. I'm talking about people I went to school with. Its just really frustrating. How can someone honestly be deprived like this?

Here is the cold truth: You must shed the victim mentality; it will ruin you. Also NEVER post anything self depreciating to social media; you are cultivating the wrong vibe by complaining and demonstrating loneliness. Watch RSD Max and Julien, they may be able to provide you with the correct insight on where your inner game needs to be in order to have good outer game. Hope this helps you and please take my advice, it seems like you are on a sad path; take action and change that path. (There is hope)

Yeah because if I ever see someone pitying themselves over facebook my first though always is "That's a cool guy. I should invite him to X event".

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If you're complaining on Facebook are they not suppose to think you'll come to the party in a complaining spirit? Bringing down the energy of the party?

People aren't here to rescue you. You get invited so you can come amplify the fun, and if you don't have the capacity to do that, because you're showing them how much your life sucks, why would they would you around? You have to be able to make people better, and if you're incapable of doing that, its because you haven't first made yourself better.

Stop complaining and get out there and make something happen for yourself. Drive to a city, take to every guy in the spot until you make a friend. Talk to every girl until you get laid. You put the work in, and you will get the results.

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I kind of veered a little off-topic with this. The people on FB that I talk about not inviting me to anything are married, religous, and /or have kids. I doubt they have those kind of parties.

I think you may be missing the point.

Every guy who replied to this has nailed it. You're playing a victim and you're expecting people to feel sorry for you. Doesn't matter who these people on FB are - nobody wants to hang out with a downer.