Hey,

First of all let me start by saying i m 17(turning 18 soon)and i was dumped by a girl after 1 month of relationship.The problem is i dont know the reason so hopefully you(experts)can help me.
This is my "story" ...
(SORRY FOR LONG POST)

I met her at one birthday party,she was gorgeus,so i went in and got her number.
Day after i started texting her and managed to arrange our first date.Date went well and after i arrived back home she started texting me saying she would love to see me again and that in her eyes i am perfect,gorgeus,hot,good.After hearing that i wanted to cry(not really,but she really blew me away lol).
So next week we saw eachother again and finally we kissed.
From that moment on everything was going great.Although she had the habit to make me jealous saying there is 1 student in her class who is gorgeus,muscular etc,so i did the same thing.(this was a joke i guess,but i had to share it with you).Later on she told me that that guy(who is in her class)has/have a crush on her.Of course i didnt doubted in her at all.So few days passed and then we decided to met again(last wednesday),it was all going fine until she started saying something about her teacher.
Her teacher loves that guy(who has/have a crush on her)and she said that they should be toggether ...After she said that,my ex best friend jumped in saying oh but she haves a boyfriend now which teacher replied by saying oh well she will break up with him and engage with that guy.After she told me that i simply laughed.After that day we decided to see eachother again 2 days later.And then that day arrived ...
While i was in school she texted me saying we cant see eachother due to raining(it really rained a lot)and i she said that she needs to talk to me about some serious stuff.I imideatly thought of break up and asked her is it that,and she said yes ...I tried to act cool and simply said oh,its okay,just tell me the reason.She said that she is CONFUSED,i MEAN A LOT TO HER but SPAM lets keep it like this.I asked her did she found another guy and she said(ofc)no i havent.After that we exchanged few sentences.I remembear saying i wont talk to her since i need to get over her(stupid i know ).

So based on that,what do you guys say?

forget about her man

It's high school (right?).

What do you want to hear? She's out. Who cares - seriously.

BTW - confused means she doesn't want to date you, and has another option (which she plans to go with) -- but that's too harsh to say, and she's looking to spare your feelings.

Go find another girl. Or several... Then parade them by this one with an ear-to-ear grin.

Whenever you get broken up with the only valid response is "Ok". That's it. No more no less.

Also, regardless whether she was bsing or not about that other guy, don't just laugh it off or whatever. Actually encourage her to go for it.
If she says: "There's this guy in my class blablabla" respond with "He sounds cool. You should definitely go for it."

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thanks for the replies guys

I'm not if this if it is your english that is the issue but this sounded like a game from the very beginning.

I wouldn't pay it too much mind. She's playing with the power and wasn't taking it serious all along. She has issues of her own and I doubt she's someone you're going to want to be with long term.

I'd completely move on with my life if I were you.

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I'm not if this if it is your english that is the issue but this sounded like a game from the very beginning.

I wouldn't pay it too much mind. She's playing with the power and wasn't taking it serious all along. She has issues of her own and I doubt she's someone you're going to want to be with long term.

I'd completely move on with my life if I were you.

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Well i want some girls for long term.
It may sounds weird because i m still very young but hey,at least girl for 1 year or so


Anywho,i decided to talk to her after no contact for about 4 days via facebook.
We talked about some non meaning stuff but at the end it looked like she wanted to ditch me.
She was saying something about working out and that her body hurts BUT after like 5 mins she said she is off to work out again.I told her you shouldnt do that at all and she said : "But i have to,come on,goodbye".
True ditching situation
I mean i dont care that much,i m over her,but should i like text her twice a week or not at all forever?