Hi,

I have a question, i'm interested in a girl but i don't know if shes interested in me, and she is hard to get into a more deep level. She doesn't ignore me and she talks to me when i talk to her.
So if she demonstrates some problems in is life, is that wise to ask about the problems, isn't she going to see me as some friend more than a lover?

You're really focused on the wrong stuff.

Your early goal with any woman is emotional stimulation. Though mixing dark emotions in is a powerful tool, making her happy/horny is where you start. Getting into the dark side first is going in the wrong direction. She needs to associate your contact with feeling better. Dealing with her issues does not do this.

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Do you make her smile man?

Theres nothing wrong with entertaining deep and/emotional conversations but that can't be ALL it is. Then you just become the guy she talks deep shit with. You want to cover all spectrums if you can. Sexual, flirty, deep, spiritual etc. Everything.

How often do you make her laugh or smile? If neither of those things are happening it doesn't matter what you're talking about.

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Did you get IOIs from her?

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Nice guys will listen to their problems simply because they'll do just about anything if it meant prolonging their attention. Like a dog that waits around the dinner table hoping some(any) scraps will fall off.

And most beginners are just that. Ultimately it's a selfish act. You're doing it because you think you'll pull some sort of benefit, not because you genuinely care.

Other than that, I agree with both Eddie and Versalis.

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well she just said sorry because she had some shits at home, and i just ask if it was with some boyfriend (to know if she have one), she told me that she doesn't want to talk about that (thank god), so i didn't insist, well i made her laugh after (her words).

Some times i think shes a lesbian lol, i don't see her connecting more seriously with someone but let's see, maybe she is the type that you have to go after and insist and insist to make her know that you are serious about her, shes hard to get to as if she had suffered before with us men.

I don't really care, i've ask her about boyfriends and she doesn't have no one in her life, i have to let her know that i am interested in her if that doesn't work well....i tried, it's more than the 30 years i've wasted by just doing nothing and always being alone with just some fucks that didn't get me anywhere.

And your right, fuk her problems, leave those problems to your best friends, im not here to be just friends

Thanks to all, awesome forum till now