So I'm outside a bar last night talking to this pretty fine Brazilian girl that I have seen around campus. So this giant ass dude walks up to her while I'm talking to her and asks who you talkin to or why you talkin to him or some shit like that. So I tell him that shes talking to me and to keep steppin, and she agrees with me. Since I made this huge dude look like a bitch for trying to make me look like a bitch he spits on my neck when I turned away. Initially I thought i got spilled on because I was right next to the patio, but no, its pretty obvious to tell when it is spit. So she obviously saw since she was facing that way and shes like yeah Im gonna go home now and hops in a friends ride and leaves. Many people have talked about being "alpha" and all that shit but the fact of the matter is brute force would not be my friend since he literally had over 100 pounds on me and was a giant motherfucker. I have thought about it and I cannot figure out a way to win in this situation. He spit on me and ran off, and cock blocked me. And next time something like that happens I do not want to walk home feeling like a bitch. So, short of stabbing him which is not a good way to go about it how do I entirely fuck the next person that does that to me?

someone must have been through this before any insight?

You told him to keep steppin in an attempt to make him look like a bitch. Ofcourse he retaliated.

Next time put your arm around the girl and say :"Oh look, he wants to pick you up. Let's see what he's got". Say it genuinely, not in an arrogant or condescending way. You're exposing his intentions prematurely and inviting him to prove himself. Being so unexpected puts immense pressure on his shoulders. 95% chance he chokes and walks away, or does something even more embarrassing, which gives you a perfect conversation incentive with the girl once he's gone.

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I have to agree..... you can't be so confrontational esp with someone who can clearly pound you.

I like the above approach thougj, just invite the guy to make his best attempt to pick the girl up

ya thats a pretty good idea. Or i could fight him and get my ass beat and wake up with her next to me in the hospital <3

thanks for the advice

"she's talking to me, keep stepping" is not an alpha thing to say, lol. It's not a smart thing to say. It's dumb. Best case scenario you look like a jealous shit talking chode and worst you get your face stomped in.

I like the option of standing back and saying "you want to hit on my friend here? Go ahead and give her your best pickup line". Calling it a pick up line denotes being lame as fuck. He starts from so far down that there's almost no recovery. If he doesn't answer you can turn to the girl and say a funny/goofy pick up line, get her to laugh, and make him seem like even more of an ass.

ya i mean those arent the exact words i used but that was the message. life isnt about being alpha i just didnt want to let this dickhead push me around because hes on the football team or some shit which basically happened anyway so ya drunk me didn't do the most alpha thing

not that it matters but the conversation went like him walking up and sayin "who you talkin to?" in some condescending ass voice and I said "shes talkin to me" in an equally condescending voice and then she didn't say anything to him so he got pissed and maybe I said something after that but I cant remember.