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neo87
PostPosted: Thu Apr 23, 2015 12:51 pm 
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As pebble said could be all kinds of stuff. What's standing out to me is you waited 4 days to text her and when you did it was about her lips. So she probably spent 4 days thinking she got played or your not that interested and then she gets a message about kissing again. Think you played it TOO aloof
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Yeah i guess, I don't know! Maybe she felt like we moved too soon and physically not ready, maybe her ASD went through the roof!
I called her a week later, of course she didn't pick up, she texted me back saying "she had a nice time together but doesn't think we are compatible"... I don't know what that means when you said we had a nice time together and wanted similar things going forward!

Maybe Mr. ruthless was right, it's ASD or she wasn't definitely interested in me for a long run!

Anyways, moving on...

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Yeah i guess, I don't know! Maybe she felt like we moved too soon and physically not ready, maybe her ASD went through the roof!
I called her a week later, of course she didn't pick up, she texted me back saying "she had a nice time together but doesn't think we are compatible"... I don't know what that means when you said we had a nice time together and wanted similar things going forward!

Maybe Mr. ruthless was right, it's ASD or she wasn't definitely interested in me for a long run!

Anyways, moving on...
Here's the thing with the Asd...by not contacting her sooner that's when her thoughts of moving too fast kick in. When she doesn't hear from you and she may think that guy moved too fast, acting aloof cements it in her mind. She's thinking "wow this guy I made out with hasn't called me...I feel so cheap now". Next time contact her earlier so she feels like you like her. She won't feel like a slut if you stay in touch.
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Your text comes off as needy, and to some girls, creepy. It'd probably be best to treat the kiss as something insignificant.
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So I was reading your initial post and was thinking "hey, this guy did well". Then I read your text and threw up in my mouth a bit.

Ok, a lot.

There can be a lot of reasons for why she's acting as she is, but the only thing you can be certain about is that that text did not do you any favors. At all. That's pretty much all the learning that can be done here.

Also I absolutely agree with not kissing at the end of the date. Well, actually, do kiss her at the end. Just don't wait until the end to kiss her for the first time.

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