Everyone says " man if i knew what I know now back in the days I would of done xyz" and it is only through the mistakes that we've made that we are even able to say such things. You've learn from this and you'll make more mistakes in the future. You'll get up and then kick yourself again.. Its all apart of the process. Just know that at the point at which problems surface.. Its usually too late. The problems were brewing far before it was noticeable to either parties - especially the male. Women are more intuitive than we are and will usually sense it a month or before us. All while they're just hoping we get it together.

Eddie and r.c have summed it up perfectly. I don't give a fuck what anybody says. Game is a numbers game, just learning game will make the odds better in your favour. You still wont pull every girl of you dreams even if you became the best pua YOU could possibly be.

I was out on a night out last night but didn't get anywhere. It's so difficult to meet nice girls who you have stuff in common with. Trying to get this girl out of my head is easier said than done. I'm 30 just feels like I'm getting too old for the game.

Not too sure we've had gay pick-up spam before.
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Thoughts like this will only further alter your perception so that you can't even see the quality women if you wanted to. One mans trash becomes another mans treasure because of the way the man "Sees" the trash. You're ex girlfriend could be "trash" to me and "treasure" to you. Its all about how we choose to see it. Speak /write the thoughts that you want to ultimately see in your life.

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Thanks man, I need to stay positive. This girl has messed me good and proper can't think of anything else but her. Even when I'm at work. I usually never get that hung up on a girl. I've resisted from texting her so far but it's so hard. I doubt she would reply back.

Not only will she not reply, or reply in a way that would hurt you, but whatever remaining respect that she has for you will be completely wiped from her being if you contact her. You will take the 30% chance that she contacts you in the future and returns to a whopping 0%.

And you can think of EVERYTHING but her. You're CHOOSING to think of her. She isn't thinking of you this much, you're just sitting around driving yourself insane over some girl instead of living your life and being happy. Theres 3's that wouldn't want to be with such a guy. You're become completely dependent on other person to be happy. You have to ask yourself what happen to you? Give it break.

Your mind will provide you with the most intelligent excuses to contact her, but you have to resist and realize that it is just the mind trying to rationalize your feelings. It holds no truth. This situation is not special, it happens on this forum a thousand times a year. Same story. Same ending. And same results if not contacted vs contacted.

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You probably do.

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I know you are giving the best advice, But I really have to at least try to get this girl back otherwise I will regret it for the rest of my life. I just know she is someone who I like more than anyone else I can't help that.

Here's the plan for getting this girl back. Go find another girl and practice your escalation techniques on her. Make sure it's an attractive girl and not just one that any guy can get. Once you have sex with this practice girl, go back to this one that you're talking about and repeat that process with her.

The only flaw with this plan is that you might not think that the original girl is worth as much afterwards.

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If you contact her you will regret it because you will be ruining your chances of ever getting her to come back. You will always be able to contact her when the time is right if you don't now while you're broken. If you wait until you've healed (3 months minimum) you will be in better condition and have the amount of dignity necessary to command a woman's respect.

Feel free to make the same exact mistake thousands of men have made on this site already if you want to - Due to weakness and nothing more. Or, make the proper move that few have made that has led to their success 8 times out of 10.

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Yeah but after 3 months she will most likely be seeing someone else. If I have any chance it's probably within the next couple weeks. If you have strong feelings you at least have try don't you? If she doesn't respond I have to move on.

Lol then go for it man.

You sound just like 30 other post from the last 2 months. They did the same as you and got the same result.

I'm telling you that if you wait, you can potentially "have" the girl, but if you want to make an attempt so you can feel comfortable about moving on.. which you will have no choice but to do because she will not be responsive to you in this condition be my guess.

You're debating the same debate that has been debated and proved wrong hundreds of thousands if not millions of times before you.

Go for it. Call her now. And tell us what happens. I'll then point you to several other threads so you can see that she is just like every other girl while under these conditions.

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I've seen this story unfold countless times before.

Understand this. Either listen to Eddie and you have a (small) chance of getting her back, or do what you plan on doing and have no chance. At all.

It's that simple. Foresight teaches gently, error teaches brutally. You have your foresight. Do what you will.

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Have you had experience of this personally? How did you win the girl back?