So theres this coworker I work with, who I consider a 5 or 6, and I don't really get nervous around her so she has made for some good flirting practice I think. She says she has a boyfriend, but that its just "young love". She has flirted back a little every once in a while, it seems like a fairly harmless thing that both of us know will never go anywhere. Or at least thats what I thought...

So I am working at the restaurant, and she comes up to me with one of these dishes that has a really big hole in it, and she starts moving her finger in and out of the hole and starts saying "oh yea, oh yea, oh yea!!!"



Such a blatantly sexual act has never happened towards me from a woman. I don't know how I should take it, or respond.

Thoughts? Advice? Suggestions?

tell her sausages are coming on the menu

Are you serious dude?

Let me know if you need help picking out a ring.

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In that situation you should just playfully tease her back sexually. Be witty about it. If she has a boyfriend that doesn't mean shit nowadays, flirt along and see where it leads.

Thanks anon, that sounds like a good idea... if I just knew how to be witty.


She did it again today, she brought me a piece of uncooked bread folded over on itself, and it looked like vagina lips. so I said suggestively "that looks like something other than bread..." and she started licking between the bread lips.

The only thing I am more sure of than that this chick is open to me sexually, is the fact that I know I am not gonna get anywhere with this cause I always fuck up somehow even if its a sure thing.

For god's sake, someone just give me a general example of something that will work to get this chick in bed, so I can at least have a decent illusion of it going somewhere.

Pull your finger out and learn game like I mentioned in your thread,

You're looking for a magic line/routine that will do it all for you. Not gonna happen. You get your ass in the trenches like all the other people who have confidence, put your balls on the line and evolve like a pimp pokemon but you don't want to do that which is why I am expected more threads like this in a few days. Probably about the same girl

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dont react to her sexual shit. dont even acknowledge it. I think she is trying to test you and see how easy you are. the minute she figures out you are really easy, she will lose interest.
let her chase you a little.

Thanks captain obvious! Im always so greatful to hear from you, you've always got stuff I don't know for me to learn.
Ok... I think that makes sense. But so, when do I try to make a move forward to isolate or hang out or something?

If she is a 5, i highly doubt she is testing you. If a 5 is showing overtly sexual signs then that means she is DTF
A 5 is to insecure to test a man like that.

All you have to do is be witty. You asked how to be witty, well you already did it "that looks more like something else other than bread" and she responded by thinking exactly what you was thinking "she liked the bread as if she was eating pussy"

So stop being a pussy and keep escalating. The only how your fucking your chances up right now is by not doing anything to escalate. You need to maintain the playful flirty banter and start including kino!! Then isolate and she'll probably be undressing herself for you.

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In that bread situation while she was licking the bread it sounds like she is really open sexually, so you just gotta not let it phase you and play along. Don't worry about being wrong whatever you'll do is right, just be confident in you. Like i would of just grabbed a sausage or something meat like and stuck it in the sandwich and been like now that's better (playfully) laughed and continued what i was doing. She's super open so don't be afraid to be open back. or i would of been like "are you trying to turn me on? cause that sandwich is making me hungry" and than ate it, and continued what i'm doing to kinda let her chase me, as i'm unphased by her sexual tendencies, but that's just my personality

Ok, this is what I am talking about. This chick didnt have her phone on her so she needed a pic of something so she used my phone to send herself the picture. Now I got her phone, and we were talking about maybe doing something after work. I got off work a little after she did, I text her to see whats up, no response.

What am I doing wrong, to where an overtly sexual 6 is putting her number in my phone and telling me she doesnt mind if I text her, is not responding to me?

Your text was something along the lines of "Hey, whats up?" wasn't it?

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Threads like these is where I get surprised to see guys asking these types of questions giving others advice.

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