It was so awkward that she had to ask me to stop LOL!

First time is always the hard one but it was worth the experience. I was so nervous and shy and scared because i don't know how to have sex and where to insert my penis lol. Good old days



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She came a few times, I didn't, my anxiety had no effect on erectile function, but did on my ability to orgasm, something I've experienced quite a few times since.

With that first girl it was the 3rd of 4th 'date' before I finally managed to pop.

I guess it was awkward
It was my friends birthday, me and my girlfriend were drunk as hell, we went to the bathroom, it was pretty hot at first, we fucked on a sink.

As drunk as I was, I could get it up, but the problem was different, I couldn't cum. We went on at it for about 30min. Then she leaned over, and whispered in my ear, that we should move to the couch in the next room.

As soon as we reached the couch we both passed out cold, I still had my pants down.

I didn't lose it til 21, so I had watched enough porn to know what the fuck to do. She enjoyed it, and while I didn't a yes or no on whether she came I'll let myself assume the best.

I'm surprised there's so many people that never came on their first time.

Usually the opposite is the problem.

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I still have a hard time cumming... I've had sex probably 1000 times and only about half that I cum'd. I never do the first time with a girl. And if I finally do it's from hard kinky sex that I'm really into.

Thought that this might be of interest to you guys, but I used this topic to verbally escalate on Saturday night:

"I was recently chatting with some mates and now that we're all confident with our sexual prowess, we discussed how bad our first times were. The first time, I was so nervous that I couldn't get it up. It turns out that this was really not abnormal as about 30% of guys had this problem. We ALL wondered if we were gay afterwards!

About half the guys gave a girl an orgasm. I'm dubious of how many of them were real though. I mean come on, have you ever slept with a guy when it was his first time?



Best of all, one guy actually admitted to crying after his first time!"

If you try this, please share any stats that you get from girls. Also, share any stories that the girls bring up in conversation!

It was a hooker. I couldn't get it up

Terrible feeling at the time. She tried to console me. "DW honey it happens, i've seen it so many times"

On a positive note: I lost the v-plates to my ex instead. Don't have to lie about losing it to a hooker

That was the first time I ever got naked with a girl. First sex however was awkward we were both v-plated. Did oral a few times, I went for what seemed like an eternity but it was actually only 10 minutes haha

Drunk. In a club. Behind some chairs. On the floor. Dirty. I don't really remember how it felt etc. I count this as my first attempt: with my ex, I was hard during the whole foreplay and when it was finally time for the sex and my official-sober-cya-Vcard-specialtime, I lost my erection. I just couldn't get hard and I was embarrassed. However I was awesome at fingering and oral. 'Noone has ever done me fingering before' she said. So at least I managed something...right

After spending 30 minutes trying to figure out how the fuck to unbuckle her belt, almost as we were both naked her doorbell rang. It was 3 in the god damn night and her grandmother (who lived a couple of floors up) came to check on her. As far as she was concerned all the birthday party guests had left. Well, all except the naked one hiding under the covers.

Ah, good times. She did have an orgasm that night but I'm almost certain that was her doing, not mine.

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We got done, she turned to me and literally said "it's okay to tell me the truth now, you weren't a virgin"

Been walking on water ever since.

well I was like 11

Not going to lie, i had an interesting first time.

My nerves were shot at first so I couldn't get it up and so she said "i'm going to sleep" (meh)

Than I had a rock hard boner, in which i put inside of her, went pumping and strainging and strokin' for what felt like 10- 15 minutes and went on until she said "I just came!" and "good job"

We than fucked in the shower and than we had to stop because she got on her period.

I got my redwings my first time

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actually my first time was with my girlfriend (at this time). We had a good time petting and then she just told me: "I can´t hold it in. Can we just fuck now? please". And I was thinking like "Okaaaaaay, well lets see".

So we got undressed, I put on a condomn and started standard missionar. I fucked here like 20 minutes in missionar, than eventually switchted to other positions. After a good hour she asked me: "Are you about to come? Cause it starts to hurt me down there". So we stopped, guess she had no orgasmn (me neither).

So well, I came when we tried it the 3rd time, about a half week later, after a good 45 minutes fuck. That problem keep going till now Im hard, I have stamina, but I can´t come before like 30 minutes. No Quickies possible

Well, that was kinda awkward but we had great Sex afterwards

I think I did ok, considering. We were both 14, and hadn't even gone to 3rd base yet.

It was the last day she was in town(she was staying in a hotel with her parents, visiting her grandparents). Her parents were gone and left her there alone, and she told me she wanted to be alone with me in the room.

Up to this point, I had never fingered a girl, and just remembered that something I had read, said to curl your fingers up and run them down some ridges(this would be her G-Spot). She seemed to mostly like it, though I kept hurting her somewhat. I didn't realize that you really need to pull your fingers out from time to time to give her a chance to relax for a few seconds, and stir up her clit. I couldn't even find her clit, though I knew it existed.
She was stroking my cock the whole time, and it's a miracle I never came, or was even close to it. I think she was probably not going at it very hard.

I could tell she was getting less into fingering, and I wanted to stick it in. I don't remember what was said, but she told me to do it. I wasn't so sure about how to angle my dick inside of her. We tried doing it with me on top, but that was more fucking complicated to get lined up than I expected. I had to get her turned around on all fours. Penetrating her from behind, when I was on my knees was much, much easier. Thankfully, I wasn't even trying to use a condom. I'd have just flat out lost my erection with all that mess if I'd been using one.

I guess I lasted about 5 minutes, which was less than I'd have liked. I don't think she had an orgasm. She was giggly and sliding all up and down me after, she could not settle down. I think she wanted to keep going, but my dick didn't come back online until we'd gotten dressed again and were sitting outside, talking.

Oddly, my first time, went a lot better than subsequent times. I was fucking clueless and really lucked out initially. The next few girls I had sex with, were not particularly satisfied at all. We'd have sex, and they'd barely want to do it again. There were weeks worth of gaps.

That was pretty much what inspired me to get my chubby fuck buddy. She had a cute face and big tits. About 145lbs though. Way bigger than I usually like. But she made for great practice. I'm pretty sure she was the first girl I ever got to orgasm.

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