its a balance. All women want to feel like she is high value to you but at the same time your indifference to losing her wins her over.

That's a great way to look at it if you don't understand the psychology of why one woman responds a way and another woman responds a different way. It will allow you to handle them both, but still if you don't balance it correctly you can lose them both using that one method. And there really isn't a guide book on that balance so you will have to employ a ton of intuition that can't be taught.

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What a contradictory statement. This is one of those PUA beliefs that is so misguided, and so ill thought out I cringe whenever I read it.

WOMEN want to FEEL of VALUE to the man they love. In fact, ALL people want to feel this way with their partners.

A woman who feels her man is indifferent to her loses attraction to that man. Imagine having a partner who felt indifferent to being with you - that'd be a massive red flag whether you're male or female.

I think you're confounding "indifference" with being one's own person - in the later case you won't be needy or ultimately dependent on their acceptance of you. World of difference between this and "indifference".

Nope. You are throwing generalities at an entire group of people. AKA prejudice.

You're lumping relationship women into the same generalization as fling type women who sleep around freely.

Reality does not work like that. Not from what I've learned. Not from what I've seen in field. Some women chase guys who don't give a fuck about them. Nothing you theorize about will change my opinion of what I've seen in reality so you can keep your views, and I'll keep mine.

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So essentially you're doing the very same thing you accuse me of. Your anecdotes of how women are smacks in the face of 3 decades of attachment theory.

You're obviously jaded and bent on your beliefs, i have no ambitions to convince you of the contrary. I am merely informing the other viewers of this thread so they don't have such a myopic, self-limiting view of women and relationships in general.

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update: so i finally contacted her sent her a funny pic.she laughed and then i asked her about what she says about getting together.she says she is busy( she is lying. she is not i am certain) so i send her a voice note telling her i know i treated her badly and that i know i am wrong and that i would wanna talk face to face to sort it out but i have tried meeting her a couple of times since we had a fight but she is keen on avoiding me so i tell her it is over with me i am done getting excuses from her and that i wish her the best in life and that i am deleting her number.i sent it as a voice note.she did not respond but i feel good about that rant lol.put the ball in her court.time to concentrate on other chicks as you said fellas.

^ Who told you to do this?

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All jealousy is is a fear of abandonment. I used to be jealous when I was in my teens and I worked on my inner-game and no longer feel jealousy as it's a useless, stupid emotion.

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update:met a friend of hers online.the friend is a HB7 not that attractive she wanted to meet up but i didn't bother.anyway i finally re-opened da HB10 we talk and fluff a bit and then i ask her to meet up her.she then mentions her friend and why i didnt take her out.she sounded jealous..anyway the friend gets mad at me too(presumebly noticed that she was just a pawn in this game).both of them block me on facebook.the HB10 then unblocks me a few hours later lol..to make her jealous,i contact her nd remorsefully ask her to help me make up with the HB10.The HB10 gets further enraged,tells me to leave her friend alone.i think she wasn't expecting me to ask about her friend.jealousy i suspect.i am finding this drama hilarious.what are your thoughts? the HB10 is just stunning.i have never been this attracted to anybody.

Jealousy is inevitable. You can be the most secure confident dude on this planet, when the right girl comes along you will at times doubt yourself.

Some people channel that into something good, others get consumed by it. Control yourself.

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If your a guy and you're getting jealous, your being a bitch and that needs to change in order for you to truly grasp what it is to be a man.

Is okay to feel jealous, is a natural thing, but it is how you respond to that feeling that defines you as either beta or alpha.

Now for a girl to feel jealous, thats good. It makes them more attracted to you.

I'm not a fan of playing games , so i'd cut to the chase and get the girl asap. But jealousy can make girls more attracted, but i advocate natural jealousy which will inevitably happen due to your alpha behavior.
No need for techniques.

The minute you start using jealousy as a technique, in my opinion, your playing with fire and will burn.

but thats just advice and as the hodgetwins would say *DO WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU WANA DO**

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