So ive been on two dates with this chick, both gone great, lots of touching eye contact, laughing and just a ton of signs of interest as well as making out with her on both occasions. Since day one she's never been the fastest at replying back, sometimes up to 24 hours I almost get the impression she is playing hard to get at times. anyway I asked her last week for her plans this weekend, 24 hours later she said she thinks shes free this saturday during the day but she would have to double check as her mom goes away for work for 4 weeks and might want to do things. I said I can do Saturday afternoon, she text back saying lets do saturday ect... I said cool ok call me when your done with work and we can discuss times ect... I herd nothing till Saturday morning and she said hey are we still good for today?? im free after 3. any way we arrange to meet and she text me a few hours after saying im really sorry mom wants to take me out before she leaves on monday hope you dont mind can you do next weekend? I waited a while as I had only just go in saying ok no big deal, ive just got in anyway, I will see what I can do. she sent another saying how sorry she was for messing me around and I left it at that. Shes never flaked on me before but I know this isnt good and while the excuse is believable is unlikely to be true. I'm talking to a few other chicks so putting her on the back burner but my question is how do I go about this situation to maximise my potential chances of her meeting next weekend. And is this a potential test or does she just have low interest levels

When she offers a reschedule, you're good.

Women are less invested in men before sex and more after. For us it's the other way around. I've been saying this shit a lot lately but it's true nevertheless.

Take it at face value. I was supposed to meet a girl tonight. 2 hours after arranging it she texts saying she can't make it, but invites herself over for coffee at my place tomorrow (this) morning. Don't waste your time trying to figure out whether her reasons are genuine or not, it doesn't matter. Work with what you have.

Oh, one last thing. In the initial stages, try to set dates during weekdays, not weekends. Tuesdays. Thursdays and Wednesdays are good.

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In future, don't make soft arrangements, if a girl says 'maybe' depending on her mum etc bla , i would tell her to enjoy her night and make other plans for myself with someone else. Do not accept 'maybe's'. Period. You lose man points if you're sacrificing a Saturday for her on soft plans.

Choose a different day instead, preferably one that she is sure to be free.

So text her, tomorrow or whatever and suggest to meet up during the week and ask which night she is free. Make sure she says 'yeah, sure' - anything else, use my above advice

Soft plans = make other arrangements
Hard plans = good

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