Yea, we know. We also know how much more painful you can make it for yourself, but hey, if you insist on going down that road than by all means keep doing what you're doing.

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1) She said she wanted to end the distant intimacy, but just keep you as a long distance text and phone buddy. And what did you do by hitting her up? Give her just that. Nice job bro. If you're in the business of giving her what she wants, keep going - you're on the right track.

2) You told her she can have you or nothing.. So by contacting her you LIED and broke your word ( ruined her ability to trust what you say and reduced her ability to take you or your word serious). What good is a leader if you can't even trust the things he says.

So now.. With those two points in mind.. Where do you think you stand?

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Female here.

Saying she "can't handle the distance anymore" is her way of letting you down gently and trying not to hurt your feelings.

If she was into you, she would keep up the distance and wait it out or move to be with you (or ask you to move).

By contacting her after you said she can have you or nothing, you likely lost her respect.

This is a lost cause. Even if there was any hope of her changing her mind, it would only come from you totally cutting off contact with her and focusing on yourself.

Live and learn. It will make you so much stronger in the long run. The right girl for you is out there. This one wasn't meant to be.

Man you are in for a world of hurt if you keep this up. Foresight teaches softly, error teaches brutally.

You got your foresight. Do as you will.

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Yeah, I just back slided. I think my main problem is my job. I sit at a desk 8 hours a day doing nothing all day. Makes my mind wonder so much. I have been reading sharks blog today after having a day off and it's given me more perspective.

Just wish I had read it a few weeks ago when this all kicked off. But you are right ^^^ you live and learn. I decided to quit my job soon as I fucking hate it and its boring as shit, I have a new one but doesnt start for three months which sucks big time.

Shark says go out and fuck other girls, to be fair I have been alaysing where I went wrong, was it the long distance? She did always moan that we would only see each other every 3 weeks. Or is it the fact that I have been ill this year and put on weight, i hate my job, i was on drugs that made me aggressive. Or a combination. I guess there is only so much a girl can tolerate. Just when I thought i had power of the relationship, and she would bang on about us getting married. It's a lesson learnt though. I beta back slided. My ass is back in the gym. Moving forward.

Someone down my gym says I need some time on my tod. Makes more sense than going out fucking other girls, think i need to get in shape and enjoy life first. It's just amazing how that having a gf there you think you got a good social life and shit. As soon as shes gone nobody wants to even know you. Filling in the gaps though.