I haven't posted here in a while, but I've come to a self realization. I wanted a place to......rant about for the lack of a better term. I think it's a rather positive realization but regardless.

Back in September I started a second stint on match.com. I got a real job with actual money to afford dating, but the hours suck to meet women. I came back to an original problem of what to write on my profile that would attract women. I had changed it a lot my first attempt to what I thought they wanted to hear. But then it occurred to me that, it doesn't matter. I wrote what I wanted to write and haven't changed it since.

I realized that when I go on these dates, all I have to offer is myself. I know I'm a great guy as is and if they don't see that, then I won't lose any sleep over them. I'll lose sleep over the one that does.

That's basically my rant. I think my realization is a good one. It won't make me a pua and to be honest I don't know if I ever will be.......but to thy one self be true.

It's a good realization to come by. One of the "red pills" PU has to offer.

I've been throwing this around a lot lately, but you might wanna consider getting "Models" by Mark Manson. Get the audiobook, he reads it himself. It's very good.

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