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PostPosted: Sun Mar 15, 2015 4:04 am 
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You still know what your typical approach and interactions are. In fact you have them recorded. If it's not worth you describing your interactions, you're not committed enough to solve your problem.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 15, 2015 4:21 am 
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I am unable to link videos or audio files.

I have tons and tons of infield.
You could just type specific questions and examples...


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 15, 2015 7:37 am 
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You're clearly doing something wrong on those dates. Specifics are needed.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 15, 2015 5:36 pm 
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I'm on my phone right now but I have some good advice to give you. Send me a pm and I'll message you later

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 15, 2015 7:10 pm 
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Do any of the instructors read this forum? I need serious help, i've gamed for 3 SOLID years about 5 days a week.

I have over 800 girls number in my phone. 0 success to speak of.

I'm willing to do whatever it takes to get a girl/have sex (except breaking the law)

I'll lie or use the most decietful methods, and I'll also consider plastic surgery. I'm very desperate.

I didn't start out like this, when I first learned pickup I was very confident thinking I was Brad Pitt, and getting numbers was fun.

The things that have crushed me mentally are the amount of dates I have went on where the girls simply do not respond to texts after. Not the cold approach rejections. It's the After-the-date rejections that keep me up at night.

Here is audio is me on a date... and here is my picture.

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You have been given plenty of advice, and you know the problem is:

#1.- Hanging out with all the trolls in puahate.

#2.- Being aspie.

You know everything you need to know... Anybody giving you advice is a waste of time...

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 15, 2015 9:09 pm 
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You still know what your typical approach and interactions are. In fact you have them recorded. If it's not worth you describing your interactions, you're not committed enough to solve your problem.

I just publicized my face on a somewhat anon forum.

I am willing to post my long audio and video interactions of me with women.

I do not think a longwinded post where i describe different failures is going to matter or help you get a clear picture of what's going on. Language is only 10 %, body language is 90 % , right?


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 15, 2015 9:12 pm 
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Do any of the instructors read this forum? I need serious help, i've gamed for 3 SOLID years about 5 days a week.

I have over 800 girls number in my phone. 0 success to speak of.

I'm willing to do whatever it takes to get a girl/have sex (except breaking the law)

I'll lie or use the most decietful methods, and I'll also consider plastic surgery. I'm very desperate.

I didn't start out like this, when I first learned pickup I was very confident thinking I was Brad Pitt, and getting numbers was fun.

The things that have crushed me mentally are the amount of dates I have went on where the girls simply do not respond to texts after. Not the cold approach rejections. It's the After-the-date rejections that keep me up at night.

Here is audio is me on a date... and here is my picture.

OK I CANT POST LINKS HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO ASK FOR HELP?
You have been given plenty of advice, and you know the problem is:

#1.- Hanging out with all the trolls in puahate.

#2.- Being aspie.

You know everything you need to know... Anybody giving you advice is a waste of time...

I only joined puahate after 2 years of rejections. I since have deleted my account there because it wasn't helping.

All "pua's" are somwhat aspie. PUA is not a normal thing, and usually is the result of a man who was unable to achieve sexual gratification in his youth (this concept has been gone over by many top PUA's)

When I enter a bar I dont sit around in my head and think about my jaw. I approach and have approached more girls than anyone on this forum and probably any famous PUA in the world over the course of the last few years.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 15, 2015 10:13 pm 
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skills 360 I made this thread so i could post some infield of my verbal

this is a pua site


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 15, 2015 10:39 pm 
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skills 360 I made this thread so i could post some infield of my verbal

this is a pua site
I mean, I've been viewing and asking questions on this site for years... and I've never seen anyone so intent on posting video/audio of their dates.

You are having troubles at several steps, but also having trouble when you get chicks home... which is a lot farther than some guys get.

Just tell us what's going on dude... or just post on youtube and give us a text link if you really, really need to.

At this point it's more like you want to whine rather tha nseek help...


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 15, 2015 11:08 pm 
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skills 360 I made this thread so i could post some infield of my verbal

this is a pua site
I mean, I've been viewing and asking questions on this site for years... and I've never seen anyone so intent on posting video/audio of their dates.

You are having troubles at several steps, but also having trouble when you get chicks home... which is a lot farther than some guys get.

Just tell us what's going on dude... or just post on youtube and give us a text link if you really, really need to.

At this point it's more like you want to whine rather tha nseek help...
You're telling me that some guys simply never get a girl home after doing PUA for years?

Please tell me thats not what i just read.

I don't have any specific sticking points, as i've gamed for 4 years 8 hours a day.

10,000 -15,000 sets probably. 100 dates. 900 numbers in my phone. everything in between.,


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 16, 2015 1:56 am 
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skills 360 I made this thread so i could post some infield of my verbal

this is a pua site
I mean, I've been viewing and asking questions on this site for years... and I've never seen anyone so intent on posting video/audio of their dates.

You are having troubles at several steps, but also having trouble when you get chicks home... which is a lot farther than some guys get.

Just tell us what's going on dude... or just post on youtube and give us a text link if you really, really need to.

At this point it's more like you want to whine rather tha nseek help...
You're telling me that some guys simply never get a girl home after doing PUA for years?

Please tell me thats not what i just read.

I don't have any specific sticking points, as i've gamed for 4 years 8 hours a day.

10,000 -15,000 sets probably. 100 dates. 900 numbers in my phone. everything in between.,
I think we've figured it out. Your personality isn't built for this. To learn PUA is developing a social skill and learning how to adapt in social situations. You don't have the ability to adapt and it pushes people to being against you.

I bet just about each and every one of your potential successes with women fail because you are so disagreeable and you have this map that you believe that you need to follow to get her to where you want to be. The moment that she steps off the path, your reaction is to force her back into the direction that you want to go.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 16, 2015 10:41 am 
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I had and I still have similar problem. Well I didnt have 0 success after 800 attempts, but maybe 1 date in 10 numbers and every third date works. So here are my tips:

1) forget plastic surgery, you look good. For example, I am bald and I got really really hot chicks (one turned into long lasting relationship)

2) I was keeping texting one girl who did the same thing you are mentioning - after a date, no responding. It happened to me like 5 time in row and I was starting getting frustrated. She eventually responded that I was not very "empatethic" and "there were no chemistry"

3) missing escalation and building physical comfort

So right now I am really really listening to girl and try to start talking with her about more serious things to build that "empathy" going from my side to her side. Then I am trying to touch her a little during conversation. Not like you suddenly grab her titties. But for example she is eating something, little piece of bread falls on her leg and I will get rid of that small piece of bread without hesitation. Touching shoulder etc. etc. (however, one time i was too obvious with this and girl expresively told me that she didn't like that touching, that she is not used to it - and it was just small shoulder touching during conversation - so in this case, game was over)


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 16, 2015 10:10 pm 
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I think we've figured it out. Your personality isn't built for this.
Or... this is a troll. 8 hours a day? So, what... this guy has no job or something? Kinda hard to believe...

Although if he is jobless that could be part of the problem.

Then again, there's this homeless guy who picks up a girl every night so he has somewhere to sleep.


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