So it was weird. Theres this girl i work with. I saw her a few days ago and she was very nice and talkative. But today she was looking at me with kind of a whatever vibe like id done something to her. I asked to hang out and we started talking about times.

She said when she could and i said when i couldn't. then she said "Well why dont you wiat for me to text you when im free?" She said it nice but something about it pissed me off. maybe her saying i shoudl sit around and wiat for her.

But i told her "Well you've only got 10 days to hang out with me" She asked why and i told her i was leaving in 10 days. When i told her that she said "well im free monday and tuesday. Actually just text me and we'll set up something"

the tone shift was really weird. It went from nice to "you wait for me" then to "oh ill hang with you"

Im not sure what to text her. I really just want a straight answer. Ive come to accept the fact that im not going to meet any girls in the few days i have left but i figure if i put my foot in the door with this girl i can work it. She calims she's anti social but i think she's just guarded and doesn't know if she can trust me yet.

What is a good non-passive aggressive, straight forward text i could send

I was thinking something like
"Yeah so i leave in like 10 days so i was trying to chill. We could hit up a movie or something. Like if you dont trus tme yet we can just keep in contact and see where it goes but if youre not interested jus tle tme know."

But that sounds kinda like im unsure of myself to me. I cant think of anything that doesnt sound passive aggressive though

Oh wow...

Why are you so invested in this to the point that you're overthinking shit to such extents? She already agreed to a date, she even offered 2 alternatives. What more do you want?

"You, me, coffee, Monday." I hate giving concrete examples because this kind of thing has to be congruent with your own personality, but for the love of god just keep it light, fun and to the point.

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