When we were in a relationship she mentioned I was like a kid and she said it in a tone of more annoyance than it's cool your a free spirit. She broke up with me eventually.

Doing pickup I think I got the whole crazy sense of humor and saying crazy things from it. BUT what else could it be besides that that made her see me in a negative way of being a kid vs a real man?

You may want to take a look at all the odd, random (and some might say 'childish') topics you've been asking about over the last month or two and re-evaluate why she may have said that about you... Examples:

-When your girlfriend dumps you for a loser what is usually..
-If a girl answers the phone BUT hangs up on you how do you
-If you ask a girl out via text and she doesn't respond...
-How do you play the game of NOT calling her back and waiting
-How often should I text and call my girlfriend? (which was not actually a girlfriend)
-When you flake on a girl what's the best way to contact her
-How long do you wait to call girls after getting the number?

And about a dozen more, all of the same theme... All of the same structure.

Do these sound like questions an adult man who has his shit together would ask?

Wow. I think Charles hit the nail on the head with this one OP.

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I think the axiom there is no question as a dumb question holds true because those people are STUDENTS and constant learners VS the people who think they know everything and stop growing as people and plain ASSHOLES who deserve the bad karma they get and have coming

Sooo you don't like the response? Wasn't what you wanted to hear?

Must be incorrect then.

I didn't ask her pickup questions as that's the only thing your "advice" suggests. So definitely your answer has NOTHING to do with the question other than attempt to put people down in a prejudice manner as I was asking about what actions are things that cause pickups guys to be seen as childish as OBVIOUSLY I don't go asking her random pickup questions about girls.

I came here to ask and learn from other people's experience not be BULLIED by ASSHOLES and people who think they are above other people like a bad teacher who makes his students feel like pieces of shit. Now if you have ACTUAL ADVICE and insights vs just being a bully that's great if not there's no reason to bully besides a lack of self esteem and needing to put down others to feel better about yourself but like I said karma has a way of coming around.

You asked why she'd say that.

I told you why. Cause you don't have your shit together - and I provided examples.

Think what you'd like of me. I literally couldn't care less about you... And won't be checking this thread again.

Want to get good? Learn to improve and stop being creepy as fuck.

These questions you're asking - this random shit... You sound like you have the makings of the next Elliot Rodger to me. You sound like an insecure person. A child if you will.

Rather than take that assessment, though, you felt it was a blow to your ego.

Well, your ex, me and JackZero above all think the reason is the same... Maybe we are right or maybe you are.

OP, OP, OP...
When I said it seems like Charles nailed it, I'm even more convinced now because of how you act when you get a response. It's immature. Just imagine if you only said that you lived by the axiom that there are stupid questions and left it at that, it's a strong argument and it doesn't show that you have insecurities but operate out of logical frame. I can only imagine that if you asked your ex girlfriend any question and you didn't like her answer, you'd lash out and tell her what's wrong with her. It's immature.

Then again, I'm using the example that you gave because you don't use any examples in your question.

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Soundwave..

All of your post boil down to the same thing.

You're simply not developing enough.

You're still stuck on this one girl and everything that happened between you.

Fuck her bro. You have to get your ass out there and continue to approach until you build your character strong enough to where questions like this become irrelevant.

Every question is the same it seems. It's all a reflection of your lack of the experience you need to be truly successful. Its friday. Get on out the house.

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Dude I have not seen a guy so prone to mental masturbation in a very long time. And I've seen some shit on these forums.

I honestly think you have issues.

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Soundwave, Charles is just being honest. From your threads and questions, I'd have guessed you were a kid, because you're unsure of so many things. And if guys online such as charles and others in this thread pick up that vibe, your ex mentions that...maybe it's time to consider that the way you approach things in this manner may be a problem.

Well.... I've got girls that have told me I'm their super hero and not a "kid." So, let me tell you what I think the key components are of Super Man. I'm sure something similar to this has been mentioned... but I'll spit it from the heart.

You can decide whether or not you have these personality traits.

Leader

Make decisions quickly. Make smart decisions. But don't be indecisive. Don't ask for permission to do things but do things where you have other peoples best interest in mind and not just your own. Your girl wants a man who is going to take her places in life. Not a loser who sits around all day doing nothing.

Warrior

In 2015, it is highly unlikely that we are going to break out into an all out, every man for himself, war... But.. there are still "battles" that you are going to have to go through as a man. Do you run from them or do you face them head on? Are you going to let your princess down? Your girl has to know her man is going to protect her and keep her safe.

Provider

I know the PUA community says don't be a provider guy and that's totally true when it comes to just getting laid... but once you're in a relationship with a girl, you are a unit. You, as the man, are responsible for providing for that unit (as she is responsible for nurturing) and if you can't live up to the responsibility of atleast providing for YOURSELF, then you are not a man. Your girl wants a man that can take care of her and give her a comfortable life.

Lover

I think the lover is the most important component of being a man... atleast in a woman's eyes in a relationship. If you're a great lover, then you are great at making a woman feel her best. You are good at making her feel sexy and beautiful. If you make her feel like a Goddess every night, there is nothing you can do wrong. Your girl wants a man that makes her feel like a woman.


I could add alot more but for the sake of time and my fingers, I'll leave it there and someone else can add to it if they would like.

So you decide man... is that you? Or is there some shit you need to work on... not in your "game".... but as a man?