I recently got out of a bad relationship and kind of got tired of looking for LTR's, so I decided to work on meeting more people and my game. Coming here has taught me a lot of new ideas. Many of the suggestions I see here are awesome. The list of texting opener's is simply amazing, and neil straus
'the game' really opened my eyes. So thanks for the suggested reading. i'm really trying to work on my inner game instead of routines and lines.

My first pickup attempt I simply took the AFC nice guy route and got friend zoned after a heated night because she 'loves her boyfriend.' She now just wants me on the backburner and to wait for her. She is currently getting the freezeout.

Pickup #2 went well as I had a mix of AFC/cocky funny. I just got a # close on our first meeting, but I ran into #1 while hanging out with her and she could tell I was caught up on this girl. We are now just good friends. Awesome part is, this girl is actually willing to wing for me and help me with my game, so we talk a lot but nothing more.

Pickup #3 is where the magic happened. I went to a party with a friend of mine and met this cool girl. I am a smoker as was her boyfriend, but she hated it. I decided recently to start using e-cigs, and i feel like they let me peacock a bit. They make me stand out and I got a spare that I can share. This allowed me to start a conversation with her which turned into playful banter. We bumped shoulders in the hallway, I turned around and made a playfully rude comment. she punched me in the arm, so i proceded to ruthlessly tickle her and the sexual tension was built imo.

I ended up getting her phone number and the whole party went to a club at midnight. We danced, we drank, we laughed. Well last call rolled around and I nonchalantly whispered in her ear, 'are you going home with him or me?' She smiled and handed me the keys to her car. So we went back to my place. The rest is history.

This would not have been possible had it not been for you guys and the advice that comes from this site. This is my first post, but i feel like there is more to come.

Well done my man!! On the path to greatness! Keep up the good work!

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I'm actually proud of you.


Reading your post made me smile. Always good to see new guys cracking out of their shell.


Keep it up .

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Update: #1 freezeout successful. after 3 days of radio silence, she got a hold of me asking to hang out.