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Becore I forget, she told me I'm the only guy she's seeing SPAM even though she said she had commitment issues and has lust in her heart for other guys. She even tells me she flirts with her coworkers and he took her out to help her fix her ID or something; So she sort if has things on the back burner. But YET at the same time we both admitted (I told her first & asked if she felt the same way) that were falling in love for one another. And she CONSTANTLY gives me IOI's like in the craziest way. Yet it angers me that she flirts the way she does, plus she gets mad cause I hv other girls in my life and wants to know if I slept with them. I said when I first met you yes, but after I got to know you, no.
1.If she's really as crazy about you as you seem to think , she wouldn't "have lust for other guys" nor "flirt with coworkers" enough to actually tell you about it.
2.If #1 were true and she really did do all those things , she'd keep quiet about it. Nobody robs a bank and then goes telling the police "Hey man , I'm robbing banks just so you know."
3.Despite all that , she admits to falling in love with you.
4.She gets angry when thinking about the idea of other girls in your life. (strong double standard ?)
5.Commitment issues ?
Look , the general rule on these forums is that the advice can only be as good as the info it's based on , and the info comes from you.
So as far as I'm concerned ,based on what you've given me , this girl has a particularly strong taste for drama. A drama queen is
not what you want for a relationship. That's why you need to avoid that. Spend a few months with her and your brains will be so fucked you won't even remember who you used to be.
As far as relationships go , there's a golden rule for any successful one:
It takes two people. If you give 100% and she gives 0% , you still only have 50%.
Drama queens won't fill in that remaining 50%. Because they feed off of it's absence.
CHAT
