Hey guys I'm hoping someone can give me some advice on this problem. I posted the other day about this girl I kinda like. Anyway everything has been going well then the other day I had a pretty heated exchange of words with someone that we both know. As soon it was over I calmed down and went about my day and took a shit happens attitude about it. He didn't handle it so well keep in mind we're both grown men he decided instead of calling me or solving this problem in person. That it would be best to post a totally unfounded slanderous public fb post towards me. I read it and just thought are you fkn serious! I took the high road and didn't respond. Anyway the girl I like saw it keep in mind we've talked quite a bit, but she doesn't know me that well. And last night I saw her, but I wasn't in the proper mindset to talk to her so I just went about my business and left. What was said is toal BS, but how should I go about recovering from that? So far I've done my best to act unaffected by it, but at the end of the day it just makes me sad to even be involved in such immaturity. Little girls post shit like that on fb not grown ass men. I've never had something like this happen keep in mind I didn't get involved in the facebook BS and what was posted about me is total BS. How should I go about recovering from this? Thanks!!

Dude like you said, your a grown ass man. So why do you give a fuck? You're a fucking man that can do whatever he wants to do, be whoever he wants to be, and fuck whoever he wants to fuck. You got this man. And just think about these for a bit.. Is it costing a financial loss? If so sue the bastard for libel defamation of character. Is it costing pussy? Probably not, because it's a Facebook post that chicks don't give two shits about unless it has something to do about kitties or some other girls titty pic. Youre starting to feel me. I understand that this may of gotten under your skin, but if you feel like you need to retaliate, say something like this "glad everybody knows how to make a whiny little girl Facebook post." Message sent, indirected at him so your still political, and you've found a convo opener to whom ever like your status, and they'll like it, everybody thinks it plus it's true. Hope it works out man

What did his post say btw?

"So do you do this everytime ? You don't see eye to eye with someone and then proceed to posting ridiculous made up shit over facebook ? That's cute.Nice try."


Shape your reply in regards to your own personality , but it should reflect you:

1.Keeping your cool.
2.Not getting involved past a condescending observation.
3.Using his post immaturity against him.
4.Taking the highground.
5.Sending a clear message that his teenage princess attitude leaves you unphased.

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Thanks for the advice I appreciate it!! As far as his post basicaly he just tried to discredit me and threw a few personal jabs in about shit that he knows nothing about. Anyway I didn't reply and he sent me a fairly long winded apology and said he hopes we can still be friends. I apologized for what I said because it was wrong, but I also said as far as being friends no, simply because if he was a friend in the 1st place he would have came to me and we would have settled it like men. Then we could be friends, but that's just how I feel. Main thing is I hope it doesn't affect things with this girl.