Im a 21 year old virgin. Been talking to this girl for a few weeks and invited her over to my apartment to watch a movie. We've watched the movie and ended up in my bed. It was very touch and go, but the moves I've made seemed soft and desperate, like being sentimental and cuddling. The furthest we've gone was some light kissing, but she ended up going home.

I text her the day after with a dirty joke, and she revealed that she wanted to put me in the friend zone, saying that she's not looking for an 'intense relationship' (neither am I). So I revealed that I have the same intentions, and the way I've acted was just out of inexperience.

(This whole convo is over text)

She responded saying that she is a 'sexual deviant' and wants somebody her level. So I suggested that she teach me the way. I've made some convincing arguments, but she was still adamant about finding somebody more her level. I've ended the conversation saying 'Just think about it'.

I think that I could carefully persuade her into it. The thing is she never said no. I'm also toying the notion that she's a little into it, but I could be wrong. What do I do?

Tell her you want to fuck her brains out and come over tomorrow around 10.

This feels like a one shot deal. Shouldn't I be more tactful?

Dude. Women hate guys with no experience, it's a self-defeating problem because if you can't get women then you don't get experience then you don't get women.

Which is why I sorta lied with my first girlfriend, I was 20 and told her I had some experienced. I mean it's not too hard to be good at. Be hard, make sure she's wet and fuck her brains out. Women's neck are their weak spot, kiss and suck on them. Also when fingering make a upper hither motion to hit her g-spot. The only time I messed up with her was when I grabbed her ass instead of her waist when we were kissing in public. I just played it off as being sexually mischievous.

Being inexperience only works when you're like 15-16 when it's also the girls first time, after that women expect experienced men who has been through as much sex as she had if not more.

The best way isn't to tell her to "teach" you, reframe your attitude. Hey, I want to have fun, and you told me you like to have fun so let's make it happen. Your place or mine? If she declines, then it's her loss because you thought she'd be down for a fun time.

I think that ship sailed when he admitted to his inexperience.


Still , some girls find it a massive turn on if a guy is either inexperienced or even a virgin. But I wouldn't say that's a majority.

So yea , just lie. Even if the sex is bad , it's still pretty good.

Also like he pointed out , it's not really hard to be good at it. Just don't let the fact that you're a virgin be on your mind. If you do , you'll hesitate and question yourself with each move.

People are different and wants different things. One girl will say you're a sex god and the other will say you're the worst she's ever had. You can't please everyone anyway.



Also , never cuddle.
A hand on the waist is more sexual than a cuddle. I mean that.

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Come on...cuddling and light kissing in BED?
Sorry, but that's sad.

You should find a way to get her in bed again and escalate like a crazy motherfucker.

PS: NEVER say that you're inexperienced. I once got a girl to accept to sleep with me just because she saw me kissing 2 girls in the same night and thought I was a player. Girls LOVE men, not some kid making up excuses about how bad the sex will be when they are both in bed.

Dude you need to make up your mind. You sound like you would settle for the friend zone. Either you want to go for the pussy or you don't. Make up your fucking mind. You're being too tactful because you are afraid of failing. You've been making emotional decisions out of fear.

1. When a girl is in your bed and its late at night ...she wants to fuck. Okay son.
You kiss her. Lick on her titties. Pull her panties down then drill baby drill.

2. If she is a sexual deviant she wants to fuck. Okay son. She's a sex fiend and she needs a fix.

Tell her to comeover so you can fuck her brains out...so you can ride her ass like horse...so you can bend her legs open like a pretzel. Women like Swagger. If you escalate tactfully you won't get any pussy because she's going to be like this is wack and awkward. Okay. Dominance, strength, aggression. Now show some fucking aggression. If you escalate like a bitch you gonna fuck her like a bitch. Thats what she's thinking. Aggression.

Now text her:

"Comeover at 10. I feel like fucking the shit out of you."