so theres this girl i see on sundays at university. she like an HB6 but what distinguishes her from the beutiful girls in the class is that she got really good comunication skills and is really elegant, she kinda knows how to carry herself, very confident, etc. i started noticing her and i thought interesting... i didnt pick up on that before as we have been studying for 2 years now. 3 weeks ago she approached me needing some help in one of our classes. when i was giving her feedback on the work she was really agreeable on my thoughts and she was backing me up with comments which i really like. as opposed to a girl that has combativeness on her side which i have picked up on some other girls that ask me for help. so i think she values my opinion. which i think is a good quality. after that whenever she gets her exams she turns and tells me about how she did on it really happy, whether she did bad or good. today she slightly touched my leg (kino) with a smile on her face after she gave a joke to one of her friends. things i describe above she doesnt do with any of the boys in our class. so...its kinda obvious were into a good start. she might like me a bit. thats cool.

so i kinda had my eye on her already but was waiting...so know im thinking my next move on sunday is to appraoch her and touch her ear very slightly and ask her anything about class just to return the kino and give her slight hint that i like her a bit too. if things go cool after that i plan on approaching her again on the second sunday after today and maybe poke her waist a bit (playfully) and talk to her a bit more. (Now im kinda slow on women im not that aggrssive and im kinda not very experienced and naive despite being 30 and all. thats why i would really appreciate advice from anyone that know how to build up with women. and finally on the third sunday (i think is really important to see how she reacts to me playfully poking her waist) i would ask her out on the same sunday for a beer after class and escalate for a couple of sweet kisses on her cheek and depending how she responds i would go in for the kiss the same day.

on a side note i dont really care what she wants with me wether it be friends, or fwb (ltr is out the question cuase we really dont know each other that well) but i think i can give it a try. tell me if my procedure is good or should i change it? what you guys think? thanks!

So here's what I don't understand.

You planned this thing out with 3-4 weeks advance...and the best thing you came up with is a poke on the waist ?

Anyway she seems to be somewhat interested in you. But if you're gonna wait 3 weeks for a poke on the waist then you might as well download some porn. There's not much sex in the friendzone.



Get some value off of the time you meet.

Escalate , don't be boring and for the love of god don't wait 3 weeks to pull a move.
Specially if you don't care about the outcome (which I doubt , honestly).

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cmon guys i would really appreciate your input.

thanks buddy. i think that we can reaarrang something depending on the circumstamces. thanks.

yeah bro...i think next sunday i can touch her ear slightly and talk to her a bit. and if by any means she apporaches me after that (ill get it as like sign she likes it) so on a second talk i can sqweez her waist playfully and shell giggle a bit. and after that let her know that theres this place i wanna take her on the second sunday. and then i follow thru the above. thanks man appreciate it. more input is also welcome.

cmon guys help me out a bit.

Man, she might have interest, but you need to be WAY more bold that an friggen ear touch or whatever. When I'm gaming a girl.I kino pretty heavily, start with a light touch every 10 seconds, slowly ramp that up to a touch every 5 seconds, then 2 seconds, then constant touching (leg when sitting, waist walking etc).

Strong eye contact, sexual vibe, slow talking etc etc blah blah blah... Watch a gambler video he's awesome at demoing escalation.

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thanks buddy...wow...i did have an idea that im not that bold with women. but aaarrghhhhhh that a hell of an upgrade for me to do that (kino that heavy). ill think about it. thanks.

Remember to only increase kino if she is unaffected by it or responding well, she most likely will be fine with it though. I normally aim to get to the constant touching within 10min, slowly ramping it up to that point. If ypu want do.it over an hour uf it makes ypu feel more comfortable.

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Yup, just be bold and daring but a word of caution... lead up to it appropriately. You've had three weeks and it might be a bit creepy if all of a sudden you started ramping up kino. You need the personality to back it up which is the type of personality you should have to game girls in general. You can't just be the nerdy shy guy who all of a sudden starts touching women he's known for two years or women who know what you're generally like.

Just work towards it with her, start with jokes and friendly kino then get comfortable and escalate, start talking about her personally and not just about grades.

There's something I have to add. People here told you to escalate, and that's what you HAVE to do as soon as possible. However, be careful not to make it obvious and don't over think it.

What I mean is, for example, don't look at your hand while you are touching, just talk and touch as if it's no big deal.

Good luck