Also,I forgot to mention this in my previous post.


You're pretty much fucked anyway , so these are your options:

1. Wait it out ,hope to God everything goes back to normal and pretty much just be helpless about it.
High Risk - Low reward .

2. End it now. I mean as soon as you read this post. That way you preserve your dignity , you spare yourself a sh!tload of pain and you get to move on with your life quicker. And as a side bonus , you might even get her back.
High Risk - High reward.


3. Beg her to take you back.
No Risk - No reward. - Because if you do this , you will effectively kill any remaining shred of hope.

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Well you all were absolutely right. I did have a bad case of oneitus, and I know it had something to do with losing my virginity to her.

Last night I found out she got back with her ex, I shouldn't have been so surprised. I'm just glad I ended it and she got the last cry. I'm a little fucked up in the head right now but I'm gonna take all of your advice and go find me ten other girls.

My downfall was that I did invest my happiness in her, and I did soften up a bit.

My friends are putting money that she'll get her heart broke and come crawling back, but I'm moving along with my life. I would be a fool to get back into that kind of heartbreak.

Thanks for all the advice everyone!

Hate to say I told you so. Especially since it kinda does look like you've been through enough punishment as-is.

But we all warned you. Every one of us.

I gave you my very, VERY similar story about my girl slowly getting cozier w her ex, then eventually just going back officially. I told you what you needed to do.

You dismissed it outright without so much as acknowledging it.

You live and you learn. Just home next time around you can use this.

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You are right, I did sugar coat the advice and choose to push away and act like she meant nothing to me. It did seem to work, but obviously it failed in the end because I didn't cut off all contact. And maybe it still would have turned out the same. We'll never know.

I know I'm a fool for even wanting her back after all of that, but hopefully it will go away with time. Like I said in my last post I'm gonna start moving on, and go out and game girls.