1) So I've gotten to this point in game where I'm past the initial stuff now it's getting day 3's and managing initial relationships. Say after the first date, how often should I call or text them?

2) So I'm texting/calling them to get another date with them, sometimes they say "idk what my scedule a like" or "I'm busy on that day" so I'll tell them hit me up next week and I might be free and we'll hangout then. But they don't and I think if I text them and try to set up a date (because I'm getting impatient) will that make me look needy?

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It will make you look needy to some - it won't to others.


However ,if a chick IL is high enough , most times she'll cancel her plans to meet up with you. If not ,she will definitely hold up on her word and contact you later.



That's why 'spinning plates' is a good idea. It keeps your mind occupied and you don't get all anxious about 1 girl when there's also a few others waiting in line.

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According to what you described, I don't think your first meeting is going so well.

Tell a little more about your first meeting.

It used to happen to me when I was starting out. If a girl says "I don't know what my schedule is like" or "my friend is in town this weekend" that basically means she is not interested. If she were interested, she would suggest a different day on her own.

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Well I'm talking about two different girls:

Girl 1: I met at a mall after speaking with her online. We hung out kissed and she said she'd like to see more of me. She said she couldn't see me last weekend cause she had acting class (she got very silent at this part) she invited me to come but I told her its too far. She continued to like my status' on Facebook so it shows she is interested. And she playfully jokes/flirts with me with me over text - slightly. So she said she'll keep me updated on what her plans are. No reply since last Friday. Also I asked her to blow me a kiss but she didn't do it, she said sweet dreams I jokingly called her a jerk n said gn. I shouldn't hv asked for a kiss.

Girl 2: was visiting Ny and had plans to leave the day I asked her and couldn't hang out but said I was funny and I made her laugh a lot via text. I also found her online.

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