| Alright so I've been browsing the boards, but after over thinking things, losing courage over the years, etc, etc, I finally had to set up an account on here to get some advice.
So I'm 22 years old right now. I've dated a girl for 2 weeks, but she was causing my life all kinds of drama, and it was only going down hill from there. Thats the only girl I've dated in my history. Still a Virgin etc.
Now heres a little bit about myself to give you guys a general idea, and I've read that I should probably be doing the opposite.
I'm one hell of a "nice guy". I've also been that way, and when I try to go a different route etc I find myself just going back to being that nice guy. I'm a gentleman with women. I'm also a little confused on how flirting works. There are a lot of girls that I talk to and hang out with, but I'm afraid to make a move with any of them, because most of us are friends with each other, or I'm also friends with their brother or sisters.
I was very very self concious when I was in my later teens. I realized I was overweight being 192 pounds when I was 15 - 19, but I've lost about 40 pounds and now I look much better, but I still have the low confidence with hearing women talk about guys with six packs my whole life.
Theres a girl I like right now, she is a HB8 perfect body etc. Problem is shes really close to my family and my family is also close with her sister. I don't want to create an awkward situation by hitting on her. Although I would really like to.
I'm working out more, trying to develop a nice look. Have a better attitude with things, but I know the thing I need to work on the most is my approach. I need all kinds of help with Flirting. No ones ever shown me the ropes or gave me an example of what to do. I've read a lot of threads on this forum that give me good ideas, but I don't ever find myself in the right situations to use them.
Can you guys give a Virgin / 2 weeks with a girl guy some advice on what to do, to get to that PUA level I'd like to reach?
I really appreciate any advice!
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