What is the best way to build sexual tension with a woman while avoiding the possibility of becoming boyfriend material or them wanting a relationship with you?

I was trying to fuck this beautiful girl for 4 weeks and she wouldn't put out at all except a handjob. She said "i'm sorry i have to have a relationship for that" so I told her I don't want a relationship so now we're "friends." I felt there was no way she would move around it.

I have really started pushing myself out there and I'm not willing to date someone or tie myself down, no matter how hot they are, to fuck.

How do you portray this message without making them feel like a whore?

Any help would be awesome

There's nothing you can do about that. She has her own set of principles.Decent Girls like that are a diamond in the rough these days.

What's there to portray ? if you want sex with her you gotta have a relationship.
You want sex without relationships.

Imcompatibility.

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You should show out your intention and go with it. Women are normally in relationship with guys who who are not going to have sex with other women. Think about how the intention goes to the girl that you only want to be with the girl. There is no danger, because the girl mirrors your intention.

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You should know exactly where the girl is and reaction of the girl. When the reaction is positive, then you should talk and approach immediately. Women value strength and similarity. If you wait then it changes the relationship even in the future.

I would tend to agree with R.C and say that your general problem in this situation is incompatibility, but it might also just be that somewhere along the way you made a mistake.

For the advice part. The thing I do is simple. I let my intentions be know from the beginning, not that I advertise them, but throughout the conversation(s) I let it be clear what kind of guy I am and what I want. This attracts the women who are open to such terms, and pushes away those who aren't naturally.

But what if the girl you want is the kind that'll get pushed away?
Granted, there is a disadvantage to doing it, but I like instant gratification and when I find a woman that I simply must have I usually get her though it'll take a lot longer (mostly because I am very careful about how I go about dating such girls, since I don't want to make any mistakes what so ever, it's my own little paranoia)

I also like to let my ex/current girls introduce me to their friends, that way I have my reputation working for me, and I don't have to think about what I have to add to the current conversation in other to convey my desires.

Good luck

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Sorry mate, not what you want to hear, but it's the truth. Go meet other girls.

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