Hi, rarely visit the site but could do with some help here.

To set the scene, I'm fairly confident, decent looking 19 year old with very poor game. Only slept with 3 people so far.

A few times recently in clubs, I've had girls come up to me and dance around/in front of me who seem interested but I've no idea what to do as I'm afraid of coming on too strong. Any thoughts guys?? Thanks in advance.

I wouldn't say you have very poor game at all dude, my lay count was only 1 at the start of last year (as I was in a relationship for just about all of high school). Plenty of time to turn things around and I'm willing to bet you've got 3 more than most dudes here!

Anyway's, hopefully I can give you some useful advice. I usually go out once or twice a week with reasonable success at clubs. There's a few threads on the forum directly about club game which you should look up, some more useful than others - I find most are for older men at older clubs, meaning most of the stuff isn't appropriate for our age group.

If you find the girl/girls are always around you, 90% of the time, it is an IOI. Make eye contact with them and smile. Always make sure you are smiling and acting like you're having heaps of fun - makes you stand out in a good way. At first, I always like to pretend I'm not interested and see if they work to get my attention. It takes a lot for me to convince myself they are keen, but if they are, I usually start dancing a little closer and hold eye contact with them when I dance near them.

If all goes well, you guys should move closer and closer together, until you get to the point where you are both smiling and looking at each other - time to move in! My fave thing to do is to grab both their hands and dance with them for a while, before I pull them closer and do the usual kiss close (look at their lips, move in etc.)

Hope this helps you bud!

Thank you! Much appreciated.

Yea,lay count aint that bad. I'm 20 and I only slept with 2 girls. A few times with a girl when I was 15 and a lot more in the 3 year relationship I just got out of with another.

All my other relationships didn't really get to sex. Dryhumping / oral at most. That's partially because of the age though. Things tend to go a lot smoother once you hit your twenties.

At any rate, 70% of my friends are 21 + year old virgins. Trust me , you're not doing bad.

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