Might sound like a bit of a wuss here, but I need to get this sorted to help my situation out. Been reading through lots of this stuff recently, and wanted to know how important your physical body is, for if you get a girl back. Ive got club foot so my lower legs are extremely thin compared to the rest of my body. They're completely normal apart from that. The rest of my body is in fine shape. Seen lots of stuff saying physical appearance doesn't matter that much unless youre confident and alpha. Trying to get calf enhancement surgery which will help a bit. Just wondering if this is a limiting belief and whether im letting it get to me too much (because its easily the biggest thing affecting my confidence when talking to a girl) and how much the girl will care that my lower legs are a lot thinner? Should I go for girls of less attraction?

Physical aspect doesn't really matter when picking girls up. However , having a great body will help you inner game and confidence and you'll be a better sexual partner both because of looking good but even more feeling good.

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Well if i work on sexual technique and work on my inner game as much as possible along with my confidence, then could it become less of a problem?

It's only as much of a problem as you let it be.

All in all it's just an extra bonus. Something that can't hurt to have but is not 100% necessary.

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If you have game, your physique means very little.

However, if you have a great physique with little game, the girls will flock towards you. I speak from experience. Add some game to a great physique, and you have a dangerous combination.

Looks and physicality are really not particularly important imo.

I'm in good shape and am frequently told that I am handsome, however I was a virgin until 20, I just thought being physically fit and goodlooking entitled me to girls. Not true. My overweight friend was picking up legit 8s and 9s whilst I was still one fine looking virgin.

Why do your calves effect you when are talking to a girl? did one girl tell you that you had skinny calves? tell her you run marathons.



I thought i heard it all.

It does indeed affect your game. Maybe not directly, as an attractive body USUALLY makes you more confidence (Which definitely is not the case if you have great game already, unregardless your physical appearance), however I think women, just like men, don't mind bragging about some of their gains and I think they'd bloat about some great-looking bloke towards their girl friends a lot easier than some thin, less attractive man.

You're lucky if your problem is only with your calves. Because you can do what I do and just always wear pants. Girls will literally NEVER see your calves until you undress to fuck her. And by that point you already have her in the bag. Plus you can turn the lights out.

We all have body parts we are unpleased with, including girls. I've come across girls with deformations, scars, moles on their pussy, patches of nasty stretchmarks. Never knew about it until I got them naked. Don't let some self limiting belief limit you when it is completely irrelevant to how you game girls and how they perceive you.

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Cheers guys, going to go out a changed man tonight