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 Post subject: LMS Help!
PostPosted: Thu Jan 10, 2013 8:36 am 
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okay im pretty new at pua but i picked up this girl at a party got her # and left her with a deep interest in me. got a day 2 went awesome she even took me n my friend out to the strip club totally randomly n paid for us too. then i took her back to my house things got hot then i hit some LMS i did a freeze out with mysteries "i just lose interest when i know im not going all the way but we can kic it and talk watch a movie or something" then tryd to reinitiate things shes said"i thought you lose interest" so i repeat then reinitiate no luck but i could tell she was resisting hard she has some serious selfcontrol. shes a psychology major so i think she had a idea of what i was trying to do. and now i was texting her to set up a day 3 and it was going good but i fucked up n telegraphed that i expected to have sex with her and she never replyed. i have not texted her again either to avoid seeming desperate.
so my questions are
1.how to improve my techiques for handling LMS
2. possibly recover from the telegraphing too much sexual interest and get back in the game with her.


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 Post subject: Re: LMS Help!
PostPosted: Thu Jan 10, 2013 3:45 pm 
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First off, what do you think LMS stands for?

Yea, you telegraphed too much and came across as a creepy guy just looking for sex. You don't need to apologize. And pretending like it didn't happen and proceeding normally may not work, since significant damage was already done.

What you could try would be a cocky/funny, tongue and cheek, mockery/absurd type of response. Be like, hey "I really want to see you again but we should just keep things professional. I can tell you really like me a lot but I'm just not ready to leap into any physical or long term relationship right now. If you promise to keep your hands to yourself I'll take you out to a movie this weekend."

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 Post subject: Re: LMS Help!
PostPosted: Thu Jan 10, 2013 4:08 pm 
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Hey there! It's called Last Minute Resistance (LMR), I would recommend slowing it down when you get this, she could see you were faking losing interest and she played with you because she saw you really were interested and bluffing. Next time either slow down or try a different angle, never tell her you "lost interest", at least not the first few times you get LMR from girls, it's much better to learn from trying!

Regarding the girl I think you pretty much lost her, what you could do though is text her again after some time, maybe a few weeks, you could have a fresh start if you become unattached to her again :D

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 Post subject: Re: LMS Help!
PostPosted: Fri Jan 11, 2013 6:16 am 
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okay first off i swear i wrote LMR but strongly supect i have some form of dyslexic cause i make weird mistakes like this in my spelling without realizing it

okay so i like the cocky/funny recovery angle i think its worth a shot but how long should i really wait? a few weeks seems like a bit much. maybe just a couple days?


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 Post subject: Re: LMS Help!
PostPosted: Fri Jan 11, 2013 12:33 pm 
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Hey, when dealing with text messages and time frames....roll the frickin' dice. It's a crapshoot. There's no telling how she will react or what's going through her mind.

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 Post subject: Re: LMS Help!
PostPosted: Mon Jan 14, 2013 10:27 pm 
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hey "I really want to see you again but we should just keep things professional. I can tell you really like me a lot but I'm just not ready to leap into any physical or long term relationship right now. If you promise to keep your hands to yourself I'll take you out to a movie this weekend."
so i sent her this yesterday and she replyed today with "Lmao!!!!WOW!!! haha... well ill accept your movie invite if you promise not to fall in love with me... im not trying to be in a committed relationship. and you falling in love with me will only make our growing friendship difficult." im not sure if shes being scaracstic or serious? and i am a bit confused on how to handle this one.


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 Post subject: Re: LMS Help!
PostPosted: Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:51 pm 
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Be cocky.
If she's sarcastic then , well , not really a problem.
If she's serious , you'll make her look ridiculous for thinking that.

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